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*fluffy* 3 things meme


THREE NAMES YOU GO BY:
1. Bel
2. Kristen
3. Shil'loni (only from Ben -- it means "Dragon Rider" in Edheledian)

THREE SCREEN NAMES YOU HAVE HAD:
1. Waterstars
2. Belenen
3. Healer183

THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. my breasts
2. my jewelry artistry
3. my passion


THREE THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. my teeth
2. my soul fucked-up-ness
3. I'm perceived as quiet

THREE PARTS OF YOUR HERITAGE:
1. Spanish (spaniard? whatever you call people from Spain)
2. Jewish
3. Irish

THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU:
1. those nasty cave crickets (they look like crickets, but they have fat striped humped bodies and they can jump like 3 feet up, and they have giant antennae)
2. centipedes
3. rape

THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
1. coffee
2. wearing earrings
3. f.r.i.e.n.d.s (well, not quite essential, but I'd like to watch at least 1 episode every day)

THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW:
1. a lime green thong
2. a lime green sock and a purple sock
3. jeans

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE BANDS (or artists)(at the moment):
1. the Benjamin Gate
2. the Cranberries
3. Massive Attack

THREE NEW THINGS YOU WANT TO TRY IN THE NEXT 12 MONTHS:
1. selling my jewelry on e-bay or some other internet method
2. bellydancing lessons
3. new positions

THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP (love is a given):
1. absolute, pure honesty
2. openness
3. physical affection (hugs and stuff)

TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE:
1. I want to be terribly famous
2. I can drive a stickshift pretty well
3. I get nervous speaking in front of a crowd of any size

THREE PHYSICAL THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE THAT APPEAL TO YOU:
1. long slender fingers (get your mind out of the gutter! I like the way they look)
2. full lips
3. a way of moving that says that they're comfortable in their body

THREE THINGS YOU JUST CAN'T DO:
1. tell my left from right
2. eat squash
3. live in the north

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE PASTTIMES:
1. beading
2. having deep conversations
3. modeling

THREE CAREERS YOU'RE CONSIDERING:
1. singer/songwriter
2. jewelry designer
3. counselor (after I'm much closer to healed)

THREE PLACES YOU WANT TO GO ON VACATION:
1. Ireland
2. Costa Rica
3. Florida (my favorite girls are there!)

THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE:
1. finish writing my fantasy novel
2. have kids -- biological and adopted
3. model for Eric Boutilier-Brown

THREE PEOPLE WHO HAVE TO DO THIS MEME NOW:
1. aubkabob
2. misemifein2
3. anar_anar




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THREE SCREEN NAMES YOU HAVE HAD:
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THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
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THREE THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
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THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU:
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THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
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THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW:
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THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE BANDS (or artists)(at the moment):
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THREE NEW THINGS YOU WANT TO TRY IN THE NEXT 12 MONTHS:
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THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP (love is a given):
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TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE:
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THREE THINGS YOU JUST CAN'T DO:
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THREE CAREERS YOU'RE CONSIDERING:
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THREE PLACES YOU WANT TO GO ON VACATION:
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THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE:
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THREE PEOPLE WHO HAVE TO DO THIS MEME NOW:
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feelings: mellow
sounds: Massive Attack: "Mezzanine"

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Comments
mabels ══╣╠══
HI, I added you as a friend...found you in longhair and peeked at your journal...I LOVE the images!!! Though I will ahve to be sure not to check them at work.

Um, just wondering, do you keep all non-work safe images behind cuts? I do like checking my journal and friends lists at work when im bored.

If you want to add me back I generaly (and will be sure to specificaly do so in the future):


--lj-cut quizzes, memes, and surveys.

--express emotion in my posts

--I AM definately openminded.

--I hate politics

I signed your guestbook, I forgot to tell you my favorite part in it but its the photos!
belenen ══╣fantasy╠══
I never post non-work-safe-images in here... at least, I haven't in the past and don't plan to in the future... but I will be sure to cut and warn if I do. ;-)

On lj-cuts, as long as you don't post quizzes, memes, and surveys more than twice a week, then I don't care if you cut them or not... it's just that some people post them every day and never cut them.

Awesome, you're added! You bellydance and have long hair and you just seem very cool.

"'Welcome to my world' she said, 'do you feel alive?' she said; 'it's all a bad dream spinning in my lonely head...'"
mabels ══╣long hair╠══
Oh good! I'll be sure to answer your polls...unless they ask something I cant answer for whatever reason. I dont think I post quizzes, memes, and surveys very often...usualy only if they are way too suiting or have an extreamly pretty picture.


mabels ══╣╠══
P.S. I usualy keep up with my friends pages and reply to thier posts on a bi-daily or so basis. I do my best to make sure I read everyones pages. Im up visiting my family right now which is makin it ALOT harder for me to check my email and friends journals so untill i get back home I might not be as regular, but usualy I really do make sure to read everyones journal.

Just wanted you to know that just in case you think Ive been neglectful and not worth you adding me back as a friend.
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
aww... actually, I don't mind if people don't respond to all of my entries -- I just mind when people don't take my polls. ;-)

no worries!
sunshinepill ══╣flowers silence me╠══
THREE THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. my teeth
2. my soul fucked-up-ness
3. I'm perceived as quiet


*relates scarily well*
I wrote a poem about #2... I don't know if you could relate (my fucked-up-ness happens to be depression), but it's there if you wanna see...

And the quietness? *points to self* I'm usually "that chick in the corner with the book". And should I utter a swear word, every takes credit for my 'corruption'. *snort*

Why couldn't you ever live up north?


2. having deep conversations/i>

I've had the worst luck with these. Old soul syndrome. I'm too young to fit in with 'adults' and too old for people my own age. Although, I never think it's a matter of age. *sheepish smile* sorry for the ramble


belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
Why couldn't I live up north? Because I have, and I HATE-DESPISE-ABHOR the cold, hate snow, hate any temperatures below 60. And the people just aren't as friendly. I know that's a generalization, but it is true that the social aspect of an area is related to the temperature of the area -- Jamaicans are much more outgoing than Swedes, for instance. When I lived in Maryland (a borderline state, not even quite northern) I'd wave to people (because that's what we do in GA) and they'd get freaked out -- "where do I know her from? why is she waving at me? AH!"

On deep conversations: I'm never gonna live that age comment down, am I? Ah well, I deserve it I suppose. ;-) I've always been that way, too old for those my age... but in recent years I've been able to make friends with people much older than me -- my three most recent new friends are all over 39 (old enough to be my mom) ;-) So just hang in there, in a few years the older ones won't be so prejudiced against you and you'll have friends that 'get' you.
sunshinepill ══╣╠══
In DC it's more the way you say it is in GA. That is, if someone says hi or you make contact you *must* reply. And random people talk to you ;-)

-- No, no! It wasn't in refrence to that at all. *laughs* That was just in general. Older, lately has meant only a year. Anyway, it's resolved, learned from, and only the lesson remains.

In time? *taps foot impatiently* Am I there yet? Am I there yet....? :-P

And by the way, I hope we can still become good friends :-) (I didn't get to add that before *grin*)



belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
When I lived in MD, I lived about 30 minutes outside of DC... and when we visited (which was often, my parents thought it was wonderfully educational) I never got that impression -- maybe you have to actually live in DC to get that effect.

I hope we can still become good friends
me too!
eternitywaiting ══╣╠══
I don't go to DC much, but I'm a born-and-bred Baltimorian, so I felt the need to comment:

The difference I notice between here and other places like you describe GA, is that in other places, it's normal to wave to people and what have you from a distance, but not as common to strike up person-to-person conversations with strangers. Baltimore is *the easiest* place in the world to start grocery-store-line conversations and the like with complete strangers.
moody_godess ══╣╠══
you love your breasts and you're wearing a lime green thong..that's great. hehe.

*THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP (love is a given):
1. absolute, pure honesty
2. openness
3. physical affection (hugs and stuff)*

yeah , me too.

im gonna cut this and post in my journal..hope you dont mind. i have a few minutes to kill.

xo
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
;-)
eternitywaiting ══╣╠══
Hmm...yeah, I think I'm gonna do it too. My husband isn't gonna be home for at least half an hour, and I'm sick of wrapping presents...it'll be a good distraction. :-)
aubkabob ══╣╠══
hee hee hee. i felt as i was typing mine out that i was SO stealing your answers, but so many of them MATCHED *surprise!*...

so i tried to change the wording on some or add others ;)
anar_anar ══╣╠══
Your soul, my dear, is NOT fucked up... quite the contrary... it is beautiful, unique, your experiences make you all hte more amazing.
belenen ══╣gentle╠══
thank you...
anar_anar ══╣╠══
just cause you asked ;)
THREE NAMES YOU GO BY:
1. Tahereh
2. Tia
3. Tarwi, hehe, only by my little sister.

THREE SCREEN NAMES YOU HAVE HAD:
1. AphroditesWinter
2. GalateasDivinity
3. CtesyllasElysium

ok, no comments about those three, I was going through a phase. Hush.

THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. I stick to my guns.
2. The fact that I love unconditionally.
3. My deep respect/love for my body.

THREE THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. I stick to my guns.
2. The fact that I love unconditionally. Really. It gets me into trouble. and lots of hurt. eh.
3. ?

THREE PARTS OF YOUR HERITAGE:
1. Persian
2. Turk ... that's it. My baba is Turk and comes from a long long line of Turks, my mother is Persian and comes from a long long LONG line of true Persians... not much mixing.
3.

THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU:
1. Water.
2. The idea of a woman I know being assaulted.
3. Abandonment.

THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
1. A spiritual moment with Godspeed You! Black Emperor. No... really.
2. A kiss to and from my sister.
3. Organic flax seeds. hehehe.

THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW:
1. wow, hah... I'm kind of... naked. Not in that really cool, oh so sexy way. No, like just... naked and lazy. My mother and I don't like clothes. As soon as we're locked away in our respective rooms we get nekkid.
2.
3.

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE BANDS OR MUSICAL ARTISTS (at the moment):
1. Godspeed You! Black Emperor
2. Googoosh
3. Black Uhuru

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE SONGS (at the moment):
1. Pearls by Sade.
2. If You Must by Del Tha Funkee Homosapien.
3. My Father My King by Mogwai.

THREE NEW THINGS YOU WANT TO TRY IN THE NEXT 12 MONTHS:
1. having a sexual relationship with Max. hehehe. That's terrible isn't it ? Ahem. It'll never happen... but a girl can dream...
2. Standing up to Sheri. Heh.
3. getting out of my comfort zone a bit :)

THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
1. unconditional love.
2. unconditional love.
3. unconditional love.

TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE
1. As a kid, other kids picked on me and called me "werewolf girl," "dracula," and "frankenstein" because of my hairyness and big teeth.
2. At my peak I weighed 208 lbs and at my lowest, starving-myself state I was at 114.
3. Sheri told me to ask my Baba to send me money because he was "so rich" so that I could get my teeth fixed before I saw him this summer.

THREE PHYSICAL THINGS ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX (or same) THAT APPEAL TO YOU:
1. Jaw structure.
2. Long fingers, and no, not for that reason.
3. lip size and shape.

THREE THINGS YOU JUST CAN'T DO:
1. Tell Nadine to get out of my life, no matter how much she hurts me.
2. Sit in class.
3. Turn any woman away who asks me for help, no matter how much I may dislike her.

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE HOBBIES:
1. reading.
2. knitting.
3. sewing.

THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO REALLY BADLY RIGHT NOW:
1. See Max.
2. See Max.
3. REALLY, I want to see MAAAX.

THREE CAREERS YOU'RE CONSIDERING:
1. Agh... I don't know anymore.
2.
3.

THREE PLACES YOU WANT TO GO ON VACATION:
1. Australia.
2. France.
3. Faroe Islands... damn Simon.

THREE KID'S NAMES:
1. Assata
2. Malcolm
3. Shirzad

THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE:
1. Give birth. Naturally, no medication, no surgeries, no fertility tests, just... naturally.
2. Go to the cliff and ocean where Paul was scattered.
3. See my Baba.

THREE WAYS I AM STEREOTYPICALLY A BOY
1. High sex drive.
2. Apparently I masturbate a lot, eheh.
3. ?

THREE WAYS I AM STEREOTYPICALLY A GIRL
1. I love babies. Babies, babies, babies.
2. I'm dyingggg to have a child.
3. ?

THREE CELEB CRUSHES
1. John Hockenberry.
2. Efrim from GY!BE.
3. Sophie from GY!BE.

THREE PEOPLE WHO HAVE TO TAKE THIS QUIZ NOW:
1. um.
2.
3.
misemifein2 ══╣╠══
Hey, I've just stole a few moments on my families computer to catch up, so I've got a few pages of friends entries to read through, I'll do this quiz when I have some more time though :) In the two truths and a lie, is the lie that you want to be really famous?
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
yep, that's the lie -- but I do want to be sorta famous (as in Adrienne Liesching famous, not Angelina Jolie famous). Enough famous so that my band can have semi-large concerts.
misemifein2 ══╣╠══
It must be a great feeling to sing to an appreciative crowd.
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