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describe me to a stranger (round 3)


in a comment, describe what sort of person you think I am,
as if you were telling your best friend who had never met me.
Be honest, tell the good and the bad.

"Belenen is..."


I think I'm going to do this whenever I have new friends that I have gotten to know well... so maybe 3 or 4 times a year.
That means YOU! chapeco and wallbrat!!! and anyone else who feels they know me well enough, feel free to join in. ;-)

If you've already done it, you can either:
--ignore this or
--give me a new version now that you know me better. (read your previous one here or here)

feelings: hopeful
sounds: the score from "Playing By Heart" -- thanks Alariya!
connecting: ,

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Comments
12thknight ══╣╠══
passionate. not necessarily about the things the word "passionate" is stuck to...but the person who, when she dives in, does so totally and gains unique insight and facility with what she dove into.

like a crystal pipette, well-made, transparent, wondrous in reflection and fragile.

belenen ══╣beautiful╠══
thank you for your beautiful words... wow.
thesaj ══╣╠══
I would describe you as a Finch....a small bird who's sometimes seems as if it's just learning to fly. It's still a bit skittish and cautious but also curious and willing to step out in hope of new discovery.

I think at times you let the pains of your past over-influence the present. But at the same time I see that you are going thru a healing process in which case then it is far from over-influenced. But if in a few years from now I expect to see that pass. (If it doesn't that'd be an unhealthy thing.)

But I have much hope for you...I am glad Kim introduced us. I think you have a good heart. And that's a very sweet commodity in this day and age.

:)
thesaj ══╣╠══
Add "honesty" to that...
belenen ══╣╠══
pinkstrands ══╣╠══
Belenen is..
..someone who has passion. About what? Anything really. She's comfortable with herself and her image which always results to some sort of high self esteem which is great for one's being.
Although, sometimes it seems like she's fragile in some areas such as letting the little things bother. She can be quite a lady with strength, but nonetheless, passionate.
A sweet gentle soul is how i portray this young lady. :]
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
Re: Belenen is..
thank you sweetie!
oblyvia ══╣╠══
Damaged, but determined to heal. Incredibly honest, open and willing to make the first move in bonding-a rare and beautiful thing for the type of suffering she went through. Pleasantly faithful. Overemotional. Inquisitive. Creative.
belenen ══╣gentle╠══
wow, thank you. That really touched me. You are the first person who has seen it as a beautiful thing that I am willing to reach out first, and that meant a lot to me. Thank you.
streaked_beauty ══╣╠══
I dont know you that well, so I could be wrong, but I think that you are really aware of yourself. And thats all I got, but maybe in the future ill know you a bit better to say more.
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
thank you, I like that.
kevloid ══╣╠══
I know I'll be splainin' this later :-)
above all she's deliberately honest and open, just like her journal profile says she means to be. she's very pretty, very artistic and articulate. she's probably the first serious christian I've met who openly acknowledges sexuality, and free will and thought, which is refreshing as (pardon me) hell. she'd be really interesting to debate comparative religion with. and if she cuts her hair short I'll cry. :-p

hmm... what else...

I haven't 'known' her long, but from her devotion to/from her friends, I'd say she'd be a good friend to have.
belenen ══╣shimmering╠══
Re: I know I'll be splainin' this later :-)
thank you and thank you! I loved this. I think you understand me better than most.

Why will you cry if I cut my hair? If you do, you have to save the tears in a bottle and mail them to me. ;-) heh heh
kevloid ══╣╠══
Re: I know I'll be splainin' this later :-)
belenen ══╣╠══
Re: I know I'll be splainin' this later :-)
kevloid ══╣╠══
Re: I know I'll be splainin' this later :-)
ohsaycanyousay ══╣╠══
intelligent, creative, brave, strong, honest, hopeful, beautiful, sensual, articulate, compassionate, spiritual, inspiring... you see the beauty in things and people that may be overlooked by others, and I think you underestimate your own strength
belenen ══╣gentle╠══
thank you, and thank you for that comment you made a few posts ago, it flew straight to my heart and nestled there.
abstractfish ══╣╠══
belenen is inspired
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
thankie. ;-)
trenchmeister ══╣╠══
Belenen is...
Very open, intelligent, perceptive, and definitely not hard on the eyes either.
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
Re: Belenen is...
thank you!
angeleyes831 ══╣╠══
Belenen is beautiful, intelligent, enthralling, strong, trusting, opinionated, self mutilating (emotionally not physically), vivid violet ;0), valuable, honest and above all Belenen is sweet/caring.
belenen ══╣shimmering╠══
thank you so much, I really liked that. So if a friend asked you, "What's she like?" that's what you'd say? I like that you said opinionated, that happens to be one of the things I like about myself that most people tend not to.
angeleyes831 ══╣╠══
samlee13 ══╣Turn╠══
From what I can gather...
You are honest, beautiful, afraid, loving, creative, expressive, and ever-evolving... a PURE child. The world would be a much better place if we all saw the world through the eyes/heart of a child.
belenen ══╣shimmering╠══
Re: From what I can gather...
thank you so much, especially for the 'ever-evolving' -- that's a passion of mine, to never stop growing and changing. ;-)
ex_alariya46 ══╣╠══
My Lovelia is...
Someone I'm for sure going to have my children meet while they are still growing up. Even my little boys, but especially my little girls.

I want my little girls (whenever I have some) to meet Bel for several reasons. For one, she is stunningly gorgeous. Her spirit, her beautiful spirit, seeps through her eyes, finger tips, entire being, especially when she is happy. I don't think she could squelch it if she wanted to.

She is confidant (even if she doesn't know it yet) - about sharing her mind, about her body, about who she is as a person. She is strong in her beliefs, she is strong in her faith.

She is Trustworthy. She says what she means and attempts to mean everything she says.

Anywho, I think if I had met Bel as her full Woman self when I was a child, it would have greatly inspired me to be a better person. I would have gone from viewing myself as a pudgy little child (which was more often than not a mere illusion) to seeing myself as a beautiful person. Because part of Bel's talent, whether she's aware of it or not, is making you feel more beautiful, more trustworthy, more comfortable, smarter, stronger, just... more whenever she's around you. And you know she'll go places and do things, and your life will have been better for having known her for just the short amount of time that you knew her.
belenen ══╣shimmering╠══
Re: My Lovelia is...
Because part of Bel's talent, whether she's aware of it or not, is making you feel more beautiful, more trustworthy, more comfortable, smarter, stronger, just... more whenever she's around you. And you know she'll go places and do things, and your life will have been better for having known her for just the short amount of time that you knew her.

That is the most beautiful thing anyone has ever said to me. Thank you with all my heart!
miss_madisonave ══╣╠══
Belenen is artistic, introspective, intelligent, and independent.

Is that enough I-words for ya? Lol...
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
hee hee, thank you!
shaybe ══╣╠══
Belenen is...
Belenen is the kind of person who is so full of life that it just bubbles out into those around her. Confident and vulnerable at the same time she is both womanly and wise. She is not afraid to speak her mind and stick to it. She has an unfailing love for God and a faith that seems to creep into every bit of her life, as it should. Her unique grasp of herself and the world around her is purely based on a life of hardships and a strength from within and from Jesus. She can make you smile from 100's of miles away.
belenen ══╣shimmering╠══
Re: Belenen is...
Thank you so much, sweetheart! I LOVED that.
moody_godess ══╣╠══
i have no time...but just for you....
how i would describe you to another...good and da bad ;)

Bel is a passionate, compassionate person who respects others feelings. she's open minded and supportive in nature. she tries her best to be as honest with herself as others. and through all she has been through, she is committed to achieving a true soul of love, hope, and life. and she has a husband who loves her dearly. :)

she finds solace, usually, in her christian faith and turns to god for support. *and doesnt yell at me for not believing in the same :)* hehe.

she writes beautifully and brutally to confide the thoughts of her own mind. she's a model and is drop dead gorgeous. *i never did understand that phrase, but tis a compliment :) *

i think the biggest difference between me and bel is our religious support system. but i think we are both optimistic and supported in our own ways. sometimes, i admit, she is a bit flakey. but i love that about her. *dont take offense:)*....but i probably get that impression because of the continuous soul searching....which stems our biggest difference, spirituality.

oh! and she makes very pretty jewelery too! i love reading her entries and dont nearly have enough time to comment as much as id like. but im glad she lets me in her life.

xo!
:)
belenen ══╣curious╠══
Re: i have no time...but just for you....
Thank you for giving such an in-depth response! Especially when you're short on time!

By flakey, what do you mean exactly? Flighty? shallow? silly? or what?
moody_godess ══╣╠══
Re: i have no time...but just for you....
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Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.