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On friending:


Add me if you want: my journal is 95% public, and I certainly don't mind you adding me. No need to ask!

My lj-friends are very important to me, most of them I consider good friends. I invest in them, care about them, and show that however I can -- through commenting or sending presents or making icons, etc. Because of this, I only friend some people, not everyone, because I want to be able to keep up with my friends list, and make real connections.

If you friend me, I will check out your journal, read about 20 entries and your bio to see if I think we have potential to click, and that is how I will decide. Here are some things I look for in an lj-friend:

  • you have a desire to grow, to develop as a person. I think there are two types of people: those who actively seek to grow, and those who let life happen to them. We all waver between the two, of course -- I'm looking for people who always come back to that desire to mature.
  • you are honest and open, or at least have those qualities as a goal in life.
  • you post about personal thoughts and feelings as well as everyday life.
  • you are passionate, creative and intense.
  • you are openminded.
  • you usually lj-cut quizzes, memes, and surveys. (I don't mind one every now and then)


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Comments
catwingz ══╣╠══
Hi there. I've stumbled upon your lj a few times, and I've always been interested in getting to know you, and maladroitkat finally just told me that you and I might get along well.

I think we have a few interests in common, and with how I've been writing lately, it would be good to friend me so then you can get a handle of who I am. Although most posts are public, some are friends only.
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
I'm flattered by your interest and look forward to getting to know you!
meganlynnangela ══╣╠══
Hey, I think you've seen me comment in your journal occasionally, and I just wanted to let you know that I think I'm going to add you as a friend--unless you object. I don't expect you to add me back, because I dont' expect you to invest that much in me. I just like reading what you have to say...and it makes it all the more simple if you pop up on my friends page :)

Happy Easter, by the way.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
awwwwwww ;-) Well I prefer not to add people who rarely post, because I find it hard to get to know them if they don't post, but if you start posting more often, feel free to let me know, and I'll probably add you. ;-)
meganlynnangela ══╣╠══
Ok I realize I've asked this before, so I hope you don't think I'm being too pester-y! If you do just let me know. Anyway, tee hee, this is silly I feel like I'm asking someone on a date or something, but I was wondering if you would friend me--I think you're super cool and I want to be friends.
belenen ══╣amused╠══
yay, you post regularly now! *adds you in a flash*
meganlynnangela ══╣╠══
:-D
on communication, social justice, intimacy, consent, friendship & other relationships, spirituality, gender, queerness, & dreams. Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.
Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.