August 2017
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random -- ljing


I did something that I've been too wimpy to do for a long time -- I removed from my friends list some journals of people I know in real life. I was too afraid of hurting feelings for a long time, but you know what? Just because I don't click with them journalistically doesn't mean that we can't stay at the same level real-life-ly. And treating journals differently based on whether I have 'real-life' connections with them or not is just dumb.

I also removed some journals of people who haven't posted in months. I felt guilty about that too, but who's to say they're coming back? I left notes in their journals and hopefully if they do come back they'll look me up.

The past two days I have been busy and feeling yucky. Aunt Flo showed up in the middle of work yesterday, and then I spent my whole first day at work. (Usually Ben pampers me, massaging my belly until the cramps disappear (yes he has magic fingers) and bringing me water and coffee and food and all that wonderful stuff) I've been completely uninspired to do more than read LJ, but no worries, I shall go on a 'commenting spree' soon. I promise I'm not ignoring anyone. And I have loved all of your wonderful comments lately.

I have some in-ter-e-sting posts percolating in my head, but they will have to wait until I actually have time and rest.

Oh, and I got valynn's postcard, yay! Pretty and purple-y, it will look wonderful in my collage! And thank you so much for the sweet things you wrote, I am so happy to have you as a friend too. When I got the card it totally blissed me out -- yay mail! Yay Valynn! Yay delightful words! ;-)
sounds: Olive: "Falling"
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