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friends cut


Okay, I've never done this before and I hope never to do it again... but I feel like it is necessary. I have a LOT of journals on my flist, and I need to trim it down some... I actually do comment a decent amount, but it's sprinkled randomly around and there are so many of you that it's only a drop in each of your buckets, and I miss some buckets.

Some of you I feel little connection to, but I don't want to unfriend you because I think perhaps YOU feel a stronger connection, and I would too if I gave it more of a chance. One of my current favorites is actually someone whom I unfriended, who then came to me and asked why and I ended up friending her again. And she's awesome! So I don't want to just cut people... so. You get to decide.

Please comment if you want to stay friended. Or if you want to leave, feel free to tell me goodbye. Of course, there are quite a few of you whom I would never unfriend, whether you comment or not, and if you unfriended me I'd go hunting you down and begging you to take me back... this is really for those who rarely have any interaction with me. I want to invest in people that actively want a connection with me.

In three days I make the cut (11:30pm Sunday), but I'll still add back on request.

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Comments
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angeleyes831 ══╣╠══
Again I say, cut me if you wish but I am not going anywhere otherwise *mwhahahaha* Sorry, I don't know what came over me. If you don't feel like there is a connection and want to cut me, I understand. I don't comment much anymore and I post even less but Dies ist Lebens. (I think I actaullay got the first post this time!!) In any case. I understand either way. :*
belenen ══╣amused╠══
Of course I'm not cutting you, silly. ;-)
angeleyes831 ══╣╠══
genesiskenshin ══╣╠══
I love reading your journal. You always interesting things to say.
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
awww, thank you!
notashamed ══╣[lina] b&w╠══
keep me plskthx
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
*snickersnorfle* You crack me up.
smurfb1ue ══╣jess and ness .:. MOGIs╠══
I'll keep you friended either way, so don't feel obligated to keep me friended.
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
;-) fank 'oo!
twisteddaydream ══╣Red Rose╠══
Please let me stay! I definitely enjoy reading you (though I know I've been awful at commenting everywhere lately).
belenen ══╣amused╠══
;-)
shioneh ══╣open╠══
i'm pretty sure this post wasn't aimed at me but um, i want to stay so much im commenting anyway.
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
LOL! Oh you crazy crazy girl, as if I could ever unfriend you! FDROTFL @ your silliness!!!!
writer_lilies ══╣Get it together. Get it together. Osaka╠══
I don't normally respond to these, but I think you're stuck with me. ^^; You're a very comforting person. I feel like if I ever met you, I'd want to talk to you for hours. So yeah, I want to stay.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
awww, what a beautiful compliment! Thank you. ♥
writer_lilies ══╣╠══
beautymess ══╣╠══
I'd like to stay, too. :)
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
but of course. ;-)
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
hrm
i know i update ridiculously often now that i have internet in my house (wait til i have it in my own *posession* muaaahahahaha!!) but uhh... well if you really need to trim it down i guess it's ok if you want to cut me, but i'd prbly keep you all teh same ;-) *kiss kiss either way*
belenen ══╣amused╠══
Re: hrm
oh come on, you know I couldn't ever unfriend you! I love you too much. ;-)
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
Re: hrm
lilerthkwake ══╣╠══
DON'T CUT ME!!!!!!
belenen ══╣wild╠══
NEVER!!!!!!!!!
kevloid2006 ══╣╠══
practical thinking
go ahead and drop me (if you want). here's my reasoning:

I post a LOT and I often post about nothing. :-) taking me off your list would definitely help 'trim the fat' there. if the mood strikes you, from time to time you could still check my lj to see what I've been up to - it's friends-only, but you'll still be on MY list and still have access.

I'd be keeping you no matter what you decide about my lj. your lj is almost entirely public (I think), so I'd still be able to read & comment if you unfriended me. so you can 'unfriend' me without actually 'losing' me. :-)


(this may be a good solution for other people too)
belenen ══╣loving╠══
Re: practical thinking
no way dude -- you're just too awesome! I consider you a real friend and I couldn't possibly take you off. But I really appreciate the selfless offer! *hugg*
kevloid2006 ══╣╠══
Re: practical thinking
sunshinepill ══╣dollface╠══
*comment*

...well, i tried to be witty. :D
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
*snicker* well, you made me snicker anyway. ;-)
maladroitkat ══╣╠══
You're stuck with me. Sorry ;-)
belenen ══╣amused╠══
YAY! ;-D
kouhaataru ══╣╠══
Hmm.... I would prefer if you left me friended but I don't expect you to comment on my entries (usually no one does anyway so I'm used to it) since I'm not that frequent of a commenter on yours (or anyone's at the moment, I just have too much going on). So I don't know... if you just read my journal SOMETIMES (even if you don't comment) that's good enough for me.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
Okay, you're staying. ;-)
shaybe ══╣╠══
of course i want to stay friended.. you are awesome.. I'm sorry I've been so busy but I totally read all your entries.. and try to comment.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
*huggg* I totally understand. ;-)
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