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positivity / focusing on the good


Okay, I'm done.

I have wallowed in pain and regret and sorrow for three days, and that is long enough. Yes, Anika chose not to be my friend anymore (at least for a long while), but I still have so many wonderful things in my life:

---I have the best, most gorgeous, most generous husband that ever walked the face of this earth,
---I have the most wonderful soulfriend who has been unwaveringly loving and sweet to me (hee hee, yes I do! I haven't posted about it because I have been so down and unsure about everything, but I trust her completely now, and will post about it soon ♥),
---I have SO MANY close friends who hurt when I hurt, rejoice with me when I'm happy, and give me the kindest, most faithful support (gosh, I'm almost crying with joy over that right now),
---I have a great God who is very understanding and loves that I constantly question and search,
---I have a friend who is so passionate in her love for me that she gets furious when someone hurts me,
---I just have so many many many lovely people in my life! Oh I wish I could go hug every one of you. Thank you for being there, for being gentle with me through my pain and negativity, and helping to nurse me back to positivity.

much much love and joy and positivity to you all! ♥ ♥ ♥

EDIT: ooooh I feel so much better. I don't think I had the strength to do this earlier, but thanks to your love, I've chosen the positive and it is so sweet and yummy. *dances*

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Comments
writer_lilies ══╣Dance too much booty in the pants!╠══
Thanks. It's always nice to see people being appreciated. I'd dance, but the guy in my icon does a better job...Wow. That says a lot about my dancing then. O_o
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
hee hee -- you're so cute. ;-)
writer_lilies ══╣╠══
Yay. You laughed/smiled.
notashamed ══╣[lina] yay╠══
good for you for deciding to be done with wallowing in the pain. it takes a lot of strength to decide to turn away from pain and focus on the positive. so yay for you :)

*hugs forever*
belenen ══╣connate╠══
*hugs you back forever* thank you so much for your support. I love you Janna! ♥
beautymess ══╣╠══
I'm so glad you're feeling better and soaking up the love of your husband and other friends. <3
belenen ══╣musical╠══
♥ you are wonderful.
catwingz ══╣╠══
I'm so happy to see you happy!

Focusing on gratitude and thankfulness is ultimately much more fulfilling than focusing on what brings us to despair.

I'm glad you have such a great support network.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
;-)

yes, focusing on the good is really the only way to be fulfilled, I think. and thank you for being a part of my awesome support network. ♥
cassieeeee ══╣╠══
Reading this made me very happy! It's nice to see people appreciating their blessings!
belenen ══╣loving╠══
♥ I agree!
sidheblessed ══╣╠══
:) Focusing on the positive is a great idea - much better to feel grateful for what you have than wallow in sadness for what you've lost.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
yes. It's wonderful to focus on the good -- like the fact that I have you for a friend. ♥ ♥ ♥ *huggggggggggggg*
sidheblessed ══╣╠══
^.^ *big hug*
shaybe ══╣╠══
yay.. i am so happy you feel better... its fun to count blessings.... oh and if you want me.. i am always here to be your soul friend too.. i mean we live far away but i do love you lots
belenen ══╣console╠══
I love you lots too. I'm sorry you are feeling so alone... but you never are completely alone, remember that. ♥
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
so inspiring!!
omg bel this post is so inspiring!! i've been sort of wallowing for a little while in all this stupid shit and struggling hard to keep from letting it all get to me but it's been such a process... seeing someone else lifting herself out of a funk is really, really... GOOD. thank you!! xoxoxox
belenen ══╣oneness╠══
Re: so inspiring!!
I adore you so so so so so much! Thank you for telling me that, hearing your response made ME happier. ♥ I love you kitkat! *lovelove*
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
Re: so inspiring!!
hooray!!
juansrx ══╣bmb1╠══
I know I´m just a mr NoBody(or Peabody...ha!) but I´m glad you´re OK now.

I *love* inteligent content, your posts are very well detailed and structured.

Remember God will remain forever, so He is your must trustable source of love, but you other beloved ones are channels of love too, so always share with them when you can.

Bye.

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LEMONY SNICKET MOVIE IS THE BEST!!!!, I WANT TO READ TH SERIES OF UNFORTUNATE EVENTS!!!
belenen ══╣amused╠══
thank you! You're so sweet. ;-) (and you aren't a nobody!)
scream_baby ══╣╠══
belenen ══╣console╠══
miss you too....
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