February 2018
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sleep poses / dream (hannah's visit: I introduce her to my biofamily and then we cuddle silently)


When sleeping with someone, I prefer a cuddly person to take turns spooning and being spooned, but Ben's not a 'cuddly sleeper' *makes Chandler mocking face* so usually, we progress from :
I am a pinching koala and tree! to I am a tandem cycle! to I am a bubble blower! every night.

But this is what I like best:
I am a classic spoons! and I really want to try I am a fireman's carry! with a girl friend. (Ben's hips are way too bony to make a good pillow and he'd feel claustrophobic being so curled up with me)

On a related note, yesternight I had a dream about Hannah's visit -- first I drove around and showed her off to all of my family, aunts included (which was weird since the parents don't live here anymore and I very very rarely contact any biofamily voluntarily, maybe once a year), then we went home (to a place I've never seen, with a tent inside the apartment) and curled up together on the couch and just lay silently enjoying each other's nearness. And it felt like a forest after the rain.

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thiswaste ══╣╠══
classic spoons is the best- it makes you feel so safe I think
paradigm_shift ══╣╠══
My usual sleeping position is "beagle pushing me off bed" beause she sleeps under the covers and kicks her little paws into my back. She is also a cover hog, but that's another story!
paintwithlight ══╣╠══
With both dog and cat scrambling for space between us, even the minimal contact of the bubble blower is difficult to achieve most nights. A loudly snoring partner (both parties equally guilty) also makes close cuddling a tad difficult for getting a restful night's sleep.
faceless_wonder ══╣mario╠══
i generally alternate between tandem cycle and bubble blower... although, that fireman's carry pose looks interesting. i think it would be more comfy with a girl than with a guy, though...my guy, as well, would not be a very good pillow in that position.
maladroitkat ══╣KH - dream╠══
I can vouch for the fireman's carry: it's a very, very nice sleeping position.
juansrx ══╣*mtl2╠══
I sleep alone, generally deep under my sheets: "Mordor´s cave"
phrankenstyne ══╣╠══
I prefer to sleep in the "two people in a king size bed with as much room between them as possible" position. This usually follows closely on the heels of "tandem cycle meets brick wall" (picture that pose until the right person rolls over and knees the left person very painfully in any of the lower extremeties).

btw, does anyone else get the double entendre of the "bubble blower" being two dudes? At least it looks that way to me.
invisibleglue ══╣Me by Belenen╠══
I'm such a cuddly sleeper!
darkpool ══╣╠══
My sisters naps on my hips sometimes, but usually when we're sitting next to each toher then we both lean over. It's really hard for me o sleep with other people in the bed, it keeps me up and makes me not sleep well or deeply. I'm hoping it's something that will go away in time but probably not.
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
aww, that dream sounds beautiful!
sidheblessed ══╣╠══
Evan and I tend to go from Pinching Koala and Tree to Bubble Blower to Classic Spoons.
shioneh ══╣comfort╠══
I can't wait for that dream to be reality.. <3<3<3 I'm so excited about the fact I'm going to be able to enjoy simple things like that with you!

I love sleeping cuddled up! I usually sleep facing the person's front, cuddled onto their chest. My favourite of the one's you've posted is 'the spoon' I think. I like being the huger and the hug-ee though if I'm feeling vulnerable and small, I like to be the huged one best :) I am also an irriating bed buddy, stealing all the covers and wrapping myself up in them like a cocoon. I usually move out of the cuddly position once I'm asleep and reveal my true demonic chin kicking self >:) But I redeem myself some time in the early morning when I wake up and re-latch on to my bed partner :)

belenen ══╣effervescent╠══
I am so so so so sos ososososossosososoooooooooooooooooooo excited about getting to sleep with you! *cuddlecuddle* yay!
belenen ══╣effervescent╠══
*EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE* SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!
shioneh ══╣child soul╠══
*perfectionism*
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