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poll on the frequency of my posting / happy birthday Veronica!


I'm in a poll-y mood and I've been told that I don't post often enough! I thought I posted too much. So let's see what the average opinion is:

how often would you say that I post?

too much -- your stuff is so long it takes a week to read anyway!
0(0.0%)
just the right amount
24(60.0%)
not often enough -- gimmie more more more!
16(40.0%)


also,
Happy Birthday [info]synisterchyck!!!


You are the bravest, strongest woman I have ever known -- and I don't make sweeping statements lightly. Even when carrying burdens that would be far too much for most people, you manage to find the guts to poke fun at the situation. (and make posts like this!!!) You makes me laugh more than anyone else ever has -- and the entire time I have known you, your life has been very difficult. I am in awe of you, lady. I look forward to meeting you after life because I can't wait to clearly see your intricate, glowing spirit.

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Comments
kevloid2006 ══╣╠══
you post when you have something to say - how can that not be the right amount?

I, on the other hand, post about hangnails or what's on tv - that's too much. :-)
hottergirl01 ══╣shhhhh!╠══
Gosh Bel
You make me wish you knew my birthday! Wish we were livejournal friends sooner. lol.

That was so beautiful by they way. Synister...you seem cool because of what Bel said. I bet you are. Happy birthday, sweetheart!
camilleyun ══╣╠══
I was torn between the right amount and not often enough. It's the right amount becuase it's your choice when you write and about what and no one else can really dictate that but for purely selfish reasons because I enjoy reading your LJ I'd also say not enough because I'd be happy if you have multiple posts per day but that's just me.

People often tell me I post too long and too often but I still do it anyway. Not that I don't still get annoyed knowing that I'm going to say something important and it gets overlooked but meanwhile I can write a one line post about a new candy I tried and that will get comments.

There's a lot of people I love to read about loads but in the grande scheme of things, they never or seldom comment back to me anyway so I tend to feel like a voyeur instead of an active participant in getting to know someone. I tend to have a love/hate relationship with LJ sometimes. I don't seem to connect like others do here.

I think some people are just really good at the friendship thing and can translate that from one medium to another. You are definitely one of those people. I really don't think I am. That hasn't exactly happened to me here and as much as I'd like it to, I'm not exactly holding my breath. Everyone lives very far away from me and seems to be caught up in what's already going on in their lives.

In a way, this digression has turned into a comment to a response you made to a comment I originally made a long while back that I never followed up on when you asked if I was taking about myself and if that's how I felt about friendships and how I am seen. I guess I've always felt like an outsider. I'm allowed to read but never really be involved. It's hard to stretch myself more than I already have. I already feel so bare and open and out there that it feels weird standing there alone like that. It makes me want to retreat and close up. I think it would be a non-issue anyway.

My head hurts and I'm tired and likely not even making any sense.
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Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.