February 2018
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on a completely opposite note, I have the best husband ever


My partner has been sooooooooo loving lately, really really thoughtful. Saturday I was really depressed and it is SO hard to get out of bed when I have nothing to look forward to because I really enjoy dreaming -- he woke me up repeatedly without getting impatient (and I mean, checking on me every 15 minutes for probably three hours), lay down next to me and carressed my hair, made me food, watched a movie with me, took me to coffee, talked with me about spirituality and relationships, took me to Wal-mart to get clothes!!! and was just completely sweet all day long, not spending lots of time on the computer, not getting irritated with me once (I can be irritating when depressed because I overreact to anything bad).

I'm so touched. ♥ He's making such a huge effort, especially considering his stress over work. I'm looking forward to spending time actively developing our relationship now. For a long while I poured SO MUCH ENERGY into building our relationship, but that gradually petered out because he wasn't taking an active role, and now he is and I feel so relieved, so hopeful. I think this has a lot to do with him learning how to express himself more, learning who he is. He's always been that wonderful -- he's just now learning how to channel it. ♥

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cherrywindex ══╣╠══
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
;-)
ehaap ══╣╠══
haha you're so lucky!
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
I know! ;-)
meganlynnangela ══╣╠══
yay :) that's wonderful!
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
eee! ;-)
delicatexflower ══╣esotsm || clementine+joel || soft kiss╠══

awwwwwwwwwwwww!!
that is so so sweet !!
he sounds a lot like my boyfriend ... ;)

i love acts of kindness! that can make any
bad day a little bit better, so glad you have
a wonderful husband!
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
yay! I'm glad you have a boyfriend like that too! Men like ours are hard to find. ;-)
nightchic ══╣╠══
Im happy hes there for you. Theres nothing quite like a one sided relationship...
Hopefully things start looking up for you
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
thank you *hugs*
folkchick3 ══╣╠══
I am so happy that you are held in loving, caring hands. :-)
belenen ══╣adoring╠══
thank you for being happy for me, sweetheart!
juansrx ══╣photo╠══
that`s cute!!

belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
;-D
kara_called ══╣poop sig╠══
Maybe your husband should have a little chat with mine! I hope you pull out of your funk soon. Until then, there's nothing like a waltz around Wal-Mart to perk up a bit!
belenen ══╣hypnotiq╠══
uh-oh! I hope your husband and you have a growing relationship, it's a wonderful thing.
kara_called ══╣╠══
Oh yes, we have a strong relationship, but it would be nice to see a little more attentiveness from him every now and then. Oh, and it would also be good if he learned to pick up his socks too!
hottergirl01 ══╣lovely╠══
Oh that's awesomeness to the fullest.

I could've used some of that hours ago!

I'm so glad you've got what you need and found things worth fighting for.
belenen ══╣console╠══
thank you for being happy for me ♥ and I wish the same for you. *hugs*
spindell ══╣╠══
awwwwwww...... bless his heart. Isn't it amazing when they turn around and are just so tender with you? The other night I was feeling so tired and drained after work, I got home and collapsed on the ground and didn't want to get up and cook or anything. I lay with my head on his knee and kinda dozed for over an hour, and he just stroked my hair the whole time. It was soooo soothing, I loved it.
belenen ══╣hopeful╠══
awwwww how sweet! ♥ ♥ ♥ I'm so glad your husband is wonderful! ;-)
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