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one year anniversary of soulfriendship with Hannah!!!


Today is my one-year anniversary of soulfriendship with Hannah!!!
((short definition of soulfriendship: a permanent (no-matter-what) relationship where we are completely open and honest with each other, include each other in every aspect of our lives, and continually help each other to grow and change)) I've been so excited! I've been a believer in soulfriendship for years, but never had 'proof' that it could really work. Now I do, because it has. ♥ ((I plan to do a new in-depth description of soulfriendship soon))

One year ago today, we decided to commit soulfriendship to each other. This has been SUCH a force of positive change and growth in both of us, and even though it has often been hard, it has been a fantastic bargain -- the reward is worth the pain, many times over. Developing this soulfriendship has taught me so incredibly much about life and love and the human spirit. And because we are so alike and we entered the relationship with such clear goals, I've learned as much in a year with this soulfriendship than I learned in five years with my soulfriendship with my husband. It has also improved my marriage immeasurably because I know so much more about communication.

I wish I could put into words the ways in which this relationship has changed my life. I don't think I can even fully comprehend it! I have learned that openness and honesty is ALWAYS rewarding; that if both people are willing, anything can be worked through -- even if the pain feels like it is going to destroy you; and that an incredibly intimate relationship can be totally platonic (something that is not often believed).

I think the area in which I have grown the most is simply believing in the human spirit. Hannah reflects me, and truths that I considered on my own, I see in her and can fully feel the truth of them. I've never met anyone (besides myself of course) who believes in the spirit world as intensely and comprehensively. She's my spirit-twin: we are so nearly identical in spirit that it was shocking when we first began to get to know each other, because we felt the SAME WAY on so many things! After a while, it became shocking to find a way in which we were different. ;-) We're not exactly the same of course, and much of us is yet-to-be-developed, so we often have conversations about things which we have incomplete ideas on, and we clash those ideas together until we hone them to definition. Usually they end up being the same, but every now and then we end up disagreeing, which is just as fun because that simply means it is a subject for many more conversations.

Hannah is amazing... She's so passionate, so deep and thoughtful. When I read her writing, I feel like I'm slipping into a deep, quiet pool in the middle of the forest. She's so brave; she faces her pain, doesn't deny or belittle it but challenges it head-on. She believes in the inherent worth of every human being, in seeking knowledge and growth, in sharing oneself with another, in the power of creativity to bring positive change. I admire her so very much and feel incredibly honored to have her as my soulfriend.


intense fire-beauty


irish


butterfly girl


sunglow


happywild


pensive


warrior


willow fae


eeeeee I love her real smile!!!!!


summerspirit


my fav photo of Hannah!!! love the dirty feet and gleeful giggle!


handstands are Hannah!


forest fae


kooky hannahface!


sparkleglow women!


this one is so soft and lovely


love the incredible difference in our eyes!


I love how happy and free I am with her


our soulfriendship rings ♥


holding hands ♥


God/dess, her EYES!


chompy bitey Bel! happy apple Hannah! :D


awww hug hug! I love that she's shorter than me haha!


glamour curvygirls!


giggling curvygirls!


I'm being squashed with boobs! but I like it! :D


we are a temple of light


haha, she thought she could escape my kisses!


awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I love how euphoric I look!


curvygirls on curvy couch!

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Comments
chillychilly22 ══╣╠══
Beautiful ladies! You both have strikingly beautiful eyes. I love it. I'm so happy that you both found each other. I can tell she means so much to you. :)
belenen ══╣bel hearts hannah╠══
oh thank you so much! :D and I'm so happy too XD
_keena ══╣╠══
OoOOoO the last pix is my faaaaaav!
where was that taken?
belenen ══╣curvygirl -- art (hannah & bel curves)╠══
thanks!

at the Georgia Aquarium ;-) they have those couches in the dining area.
sabr ══╣sabr & the red devil : hood shot╠══
I am so much in love with you both. <3
belenen ══╣bel hearts sabR╠══
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww XD
cherrywindex ══╣╠══
belenen ══╣effervescent╠══
me too! I want one like it!
acid_burns ══╣charlize theron / life is beautiful╠══
Happiness ♥
belenen ══╣hopeful╠══
:D
armandii ══╣╠══
I had tears of happiness reading your words then when looking at the photos I felt I could actually experience some of the emotional connection between the two of you. Thank you so much for sharing, and much love to the both of you.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ much love to you *hugs tight*
katielilie ══╣╠══
You are both so gorgeous. Congratulations. :)
belenen ══╣soulfriendship╠══
thank you :D ♥
darkpool ══╣╠══
Awwww she's so cute.

That is such a cool couch at the end.
belenen ══╣eccentric╠══
:D I agree! and I love the couch, I wanted to steal it but I figured they'd notice if I tried to stick it down my shirt.
delicatexflower ══╣christina r. ][ blue faerie ][ fly╠══

gahhhh!
so beautiful.
i love your soulfriendship with her!

there's no words on how beautiful it is.
it's like an energy that glows in its most
beautiful purple color when i see photos of you, two!

happy one-year anniversary!! =]
belenen ══╣soulfriendship╠══
awwwwwwwwwwww thank you so much for your beautiful words! ♥
juansrx ══╣*ash1╠══
You look like sisters!!, so alike!!, tell her that I think she has very pretty eyes!!

P.S: Did you know a skinny guy took a photo of you kissing her??
belenen ══╣amused╠══
thanks! ;-)

*giggles* that skinny guy is Ben :D
roina_arwen ══╣Under Your Spell╠══
Awww - you're both so adorable & shmoopy! You look like sisters. :)
belenen ══╣soulfriendship╠══
:D
thiswaste ══╣╠══
You girls are so beautiful. I wish I had a friendship like that. You're very lucky.
belenen ══╣soulfriendship╠══
we are ♥ and I believe you can, you just have to find the right person(s)!
sidheblessed ══╣╠══
Both you and Hannah are beautiful and incredibly lucky to have each other.
belenen ══╣soulfriendship╠══
thank you and yes we are ♥
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
wow, in all the ones after "summerspirit" she looks a lot like YOU!! the two of you could totally be related-- but i guess you are ;) i loved seeing the pictures of the two of you together that I hadn't seen before, and the glamor shots of you two on the couch are AWESOMME!!
belenen ══╣bel bites happy apple hannah╠══
:D Well we both have a lot of Irish blood *giggles*

thank you! :D
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