October 2017
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Ben's officially the breadwinner


Ben can support us totally, and today he decided to let me know that he's willing to do it alone until at least June. I feel sure I can get a job before that, but it is so wonderful not to have that stress on my back every day all day. He's more relaxed now too, since I helped him to realize that we aren't digging ourselves in a hole, and in our situation we don't actually need money from me. So he's not worried (so much).



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