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meme: spend a night with me!


(meme copied from brightlotusmoon, thanks!) If you were able to spend one night with me, what 5 things would you want to do? Anything goes.

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depravedhumane ══╣╠══
1. Sit and Talk, really talk. So few people do that anymore.
2. You would have to teach me how you are so open, it is something i desperately want to learn.
3. Hug. I am a good hugger I have been told, bear hugs are my specialty.
4. Laugh. I am loud and can laugh for hours and hours.
5. Of course as a gentleman, the lady always gets to pick first. I suppose this should be first one though shouldn't it?
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1. 'real talks' are my specialty, heh. I refuse to participate in any other kind ;-)
2. I could give you tips! but it is a long journey, took me years to get from closed-off to truly open.
3. YAY! I love hugs so much. A good hug totally refreshes me!
4. awesome! *giggles*
5. well, I'm not a lady, I'm just a person in a female body. We'd agree together! :D
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acid_burns ══╣╠══
1. Talk about everything and nothing over coffee/wine/whathaveyou.
2. Giggle over good music.
3. Throw random hugs at each other.
4. Watch The Diving Bell and the Butterfly and Playing By Heart.
5. Take a picture of you.


belenen ══╣kissy╠══
ohhhhh I want to do all those things with you! *yearns!* Except, turnabout is fair play -- you have to let me photograph YOU as well *giggles*

Maybe tomorrow, maybe next week ♥ ♥ ♥ !
opheliasxflower ══╣╠══
1. go to an art gallery
2. see a play together
3. get matching tattoos
4. go see the Tree That Owns Itself
5. Sleep. ^_^
belenen ══╣amused╠══
yay! I like all of those, but the sleep sounds dull unless there are cuddles too. I love cuddly sleeping!

what tattoos would we get? ;-)
fionavere ══╣╠══
1. I'd probably talk your ear off, because, well, I do that! The first time I met you I think we started some fascinating conversations, and I'd like to know more about what you think and feel about some of those things and more.
2. We would probably eat something. Maybe I'd cook for you, maybe we'd go out, but there would definitely be food involved. Sharing a meal is a very meaningful form of fellowship with another person (or people), the importance of "breaking bread together" goes back to biblical times. So yeah, food would be eaten. :)
3. Pictures would be taken. I think it would be really cool to do a nude photo shoot with you, as you are quite lovely, and you share similar views about nudity as I do.
4. We could listen to music and dance. I think it would be cool to share music with you. I could share some music that I love that you may not be familiar with, and vice versa. And then of course there would have to be dancing, and possibly we'd still be naked from # 3. ;)
5. Laugh. Whatever else we could think of to do together, I would hope that there was a lot of laughter that night. :)
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1. YAY! I'm always up for stimulating conversations.
2. yay! as long as I don't have to cook, I'm a disaster at it, heh. I agree with you about eating together being very significant! another one of those conversations :D
3. YAYYAYAYAY!!!! *excitement!* I definitely look forward to that. ;-)
4. cool! I love dancing and music-sharing.
5. oh definitely *giggles*
gem_night77 ══╣╠══
1. Cook a big homemade meal, with brownies as a desert.
2. Make cocktails.
3. Play cards. Phase 10, Spit, War, etc.
4. Crafts time. Scrapbooking, knitting, making picture frames, etc.
5. Watch a chick flick, The Notebook, Fried Green Tomatoes, Beaches, something with a good cry.

I am not going to lie, I have to be one of the most boring people ever.
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1. heh, I'd hope you did the cooking or it might not be edible! ;-) we could mix andes mints into the brownies, yum ;-)
2. cool! you could teach me how *is alcohol-ignorant*
3. and I'd get solidly beaten *giggles*
4. ROCK! I love doing art projects with someone else.
5. a cry and giggles too? like Playing By Heart, which I pretty make all of my friends watch with me at some point ;-)

oh, don't sell yourself so short!
jendaby ══╣pip & pop╠══
1. Hugs! Laughter! Smiles! (these can count as one thing, yes? otherwise i can't fit everything else)
2. Much talking and getting to know each other and bonding!
3. There must be food and beverage! I'm curious what foods you like!
4. I think we should sing! Even if we are off-key (I don't know about you, but I sometimes am).
5. We could make jewelry together! Our styles are very different, but it would be so fun to sit together and create things and talk about what we are making! :)
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1. *giggles* as long as there are a ton of hugs! :D
2. YAY!
3. I'm not as picky as I used to be, but on a scale of one to 10 there is very little that goes above a 6. Good Mexican food, though, that's a 10! pizza is between a 7 and a 9, depending. I love anything with tomatoes and cheese, basically. ;-) I'm not much of a fancy-food person.
4. well... I almost never sing in front of people, so I dunno if I would get there on the first visit, but maybe if the music was loud enough!
5. it sounds fun! but I'm very... impulsive and meditative when I bead-weave -- I've never tried talking while working so I dunno if that would work! but I'd be happy to try it. ;-)
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flyingshaman ══╣╠══
1. I'd love to cook with you.
2. Dance!
3. breathe with you and listen to our own magic.
4. Sing.
5. Weave words together.

and giggle!
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1. wow, that's so odd! everyone wants to cook with me! I'm crap at it though ;-)
2. yay!
3. *breathes deep* yes!
4. do you know, I think I actually might feel comfortable singing around you. Wouldn't know for sure until I tried it but... maybe!
5. ;-)

yes! many giggles! :D
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trenchmeister ══╣╠══
1. LOTS of cuddling
2. Discuss Our Different Views on Open/Poly relationships and their challenges
3. Discuss our religious views
4. Bath or Shower out of the question?
5. Your call...
belenen ══╣amused╠══
yay cuddles and talking about relationships and spirituality! I think I'd skip the bath/shower though ;-)
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brightlotusmoon ══╣╠══
(You don't need to screen this)

1. Discuss spiritiality and magic and philosophy.
2. Play with my cats.
3. Get creative with a Twenty Questions game.
4. Take lots of creative photos and play with makeup.
5. If we really connect, well... *wink nudge blush*
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
1. YAYYAYAYAYAYAY!!!!! :D
2. omg, are they cuddly? I've practically forgotten what cats are supposed to be like, with my little antisocial monster *giggles*
3. I've never actually played that! I don't think. How does it work?
4. oooooh, yes! wow, that sounds like SO much fun!
5. *blush-giggle!*
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writer_lilies ══╣╠══
1. Cook
2. Eat
3. Shop
4. Take pictures (clothed, sorry :) )
5. Play with your cat
belenen ══╣kanika kitty╠══
hee hee, clothed pictures are fun too! :D

does my whole flist like to cook or do I somehow give off cook-vibes? *wonders* but eating and shopping, that I can do ;-)

If Kanika was in the right mood! With strangers, sometimes she hides, sometimes she attempts to kill them, sometimes she tries to hump them, and every now and then she acts normal, heh.
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suesniffsglue ══╣╠══
1) Go for a walk in some pretty woods somewhere
2) Collaborate on art! I draw and paint, and I don't know if you do, but I know you make beautiful jewelry, so we could end up with a three-dimensional piece of awesomeness. I picture your brain brimming with lovely and inspirational images!
3) Laugh
4) Discuss all sorts of things
5) Whatever other things you'd want to do! I'm indecisive.
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1) ♥
2) yay! what a fantastic idea! :D I would so love to do that
3) but of course :D
4) yes!
5) hee hee okay then ;-)
sabr ══╣╠══
1. Catch the first flight to Hannah.
2. Go to a local Coffee shop, the most eclectic we can find, and sit on the nearest thing that resembles the green couch to have a nice long talk.
3. Dance in the moonlight.
4. Cook yummy foods together.
5. Laugh, a lot.
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
1. yay! ;-) One day...
2. sounds fantastic!
3. YAY!
4. haha ;-D
5. YES!
febrile_lune ══╣╠══
1.) Like some others have said, I'd yap your EAR off! About anything and everything because you're one of the most intriguing people I know, because you are open to pretty much any topic and have opinions and insights on everything that run so vast and deep. I'd also probably ask you for advice on something I've been thinking about asking anyway, even from across the country. We'll see.
2.) I don't know, but some sort of art project!
3.) Either go out to eat or else stay home and make yummy, nourishing food because you help remind me that I deserve to nourish myself and my body!
4.) Maybe go for a walk or else just go in the backyard and see the stars but something to do with getting and staying in touch with nature.
5.) Anything else you wanted to do! But if that sounds too much like a cop out... I could think of something else. It's true, though!
belenen ══╣amused╠══
1) awwww thank you so much! ♥ feel free to ask me anything you wish *hugs*
2) yes! I love the idea of art collaborating -- I've never done it before!
3) awww, what a wonderful reason!
4) yes indeed :D
5) haha! :D
lorelei_sakti ══╣╠══
pajama party!
1) make up secret aliases for ourselves
2) go outside barefoot, look up at the stars and be bathed in the magnificent splendor of the Universe.
3) belly dance
4) divulge our most personal dreams and desires
5) laugh and be silly
belenen ══╣amused╠══
Re: pajama party!
1) cool! :D
2) oooh sounds wonderful
3) yay! *shimmies*
4) ♥
5) awesome! I love that!
armandii ══╣╠══
1. Dress up and take photographs of each other
2. Undress and take photographs of each other
3. Paint each other's bodies
4. Dance!
5. Lie on the earth looking at the moon and the stars
belenen ══╣amused╠══
haha, I love the combo of 1 & 2! :D
3) YAY!
4) yay more!
5) mmm yes!
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