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my tribe: you.


Ever since I made the post on my tribe, I've wanted to add more, explain more. I listed my 'tentmates' but the truth is, nearly everyone on my friends list is part of my tribe. I only have two kinds of people on my flist; those whom I have a connection with, and those whom I might have a connection with. And I think the ratio is about 80 to 8; nearly all of you are SO IMPORTANT to me.

I like to know where I stand with people and I like people to know where they stand with me. So, if you comment, I will tell you why you are an important part of my life, and whether I feel a connection or am still unsure.

I am truly so very very lucky to have this amazing tribe of incredible people! Thank you ♥ I love you!

ETA: I'm going to be doing these slowly, so please don't think I'm ignoring you. ;-)

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armandii ══╣╠══
I am commenting :-)
belenen ══╣feral╠══
I am very confident that we have a connection ♥ You are one of my fire-sharers :D

You are very important to me because of your open-mindedness and search for growth. I find your self-love journey especially inspiring because you have more years of self-hate training to unlearn, but you are not dismayed by it. Sometimes I feel despair for mothers because so many of them seem to define themselves by their role, but you don't! You search and find and say "this is me: curvy moonlit-haired bellydancing beautiful woman who happens to have a partner and a son." It gives me hope for my biomom (just to clarify: I see you as a friend, not a mother-figure ;-)) and for my friends-who-are-mothers.
armandii ══╣╠══
belenen ══╣╠══
acid_burns ══╣an american crime╠══
Just listening to Kosheen's Hide U - what a beautiful song.

Also, I'm truly very grateful to have you in my life ♥
belenen ══╣oneness╠══
I am completely confident that we have a connection ♥ You are one of my tent-mates, of course, and in my imaginary-land we sometimes whisper to each other and giggle together at night. :D

You are very important to me because of your fearless vulnerability to all that is beautiful ♥ So brave and sensitive. You inspire me with your dreaming and your actual achievement of your dreams! Traveling is so important to me and I have just started to have the courage to actually live my dreams in that way -- your influence has definitely helped. I practically hold my breath for the day when you can live in a more nourishing place with a job that you (at least like, if not) love, because if you are so amazing now I cannot even imagine how incredible you will be with so much more joy to work with! I used to be so intimidated by you, with your strength and your freedom, but you showed me that you also had such an open heart to go with those things and now I feel just confidence and love ♥

I am very grateful to have you in my life, also *hugs*
chillychilly22 ══╣╠══
You're awesome! So tell me how you really feel about me. ;)
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
*giggles!* I am pretty confident that we have a connection ♥ You are definitely one of my tribe :D

You are important to me because of your open-mindedness and fierce freedom! You seem to be a very carefree person; I love how you don't seem to give a crap what others think about you, you just are who you are and they can like it or leave it. I don't relate to a lot of your life as we live so differently, but when you express your thoughts on broader topics I find them really fascinating. I have a feeling that we would get along quite well in person ;-)
chillychilly22 ══╣╠══
sidheblessed ══╣╠══
Consider this a comment. ;)

Honestly, I think you are a wonderful inspiration and I just love you. ^.^
belenen ══╣powerful╠══
awww ♥ thank you!

I am very confident that we have a connection ♥ You are one of my fire-sharers :D

You are very important to me because of your strong and beautiful spirituality, your 'organized' mind (dunno how to explain that but I somehow relate to you on a mental level?), and your generous spirit. I love how you ALWAYS seek to offer comfort and love where it is needed. And I love how strong you seem in your spirituality -- it reminds me of the best parts of Christianity, how truly believing people practice. You have this strong faith and confidence that you are on the right path for you, and my own faith has strengthened in my path just by seeing your example. ♥
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manifestress ══╣╠══
mmmmmmmy sentiments, as well.
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
'fraid I don't know you well enough yet to say ;-)
manifestress ══╣╠══
celestialsight ══╣Swing fairy╠══
Posts like this always make me curious.
belenen ══╣loving╠══
I am pretty confident that we have a connection ♥ You are definitely one of my tribe!

You are important to me because of your openness and open-mindedness. I feel I would be very comfortable in your company because you are the type to meet people where they are. I wouldn't feel like I had to be any particular way. I also feel like we'd have easy, very interesting conversation. ;-) and over LJ, I enjoy reading your journal because you inspire me in your relationships and your general compassion ♥
celestialsight ══╣╠══
thiswaste ══╣╠══
I'm commenting!
dizzydog ══╣╠══
*hugs* I've been a pretty quiet part of your circle here, but I'm glad to be here :)
aetheric ══╣╠══
♥ I think you're just lovely and I often daydream about being able to spend time with you in person someday!
hyrkanian ══╣╠══
I look forward to your posts, because they almost always inspire me to think about myself. I'm a quiet observer but I do enjoy the observing. :)
brightlotusmoon ══╣╠══
You're extraordinary. In every sense. :)Okay, tell me.
flyingshaman ══╣╠══
I love you love you love you love you love you...

you're a beautiful person, throughout and throughout, with the stars dancing on zir's shoulders and the moon twinkling in your smile.
shioneh ══╣spiral dance╠══
I know we are both in each other's tribe but I'm commenting to hear what you'd have to say ♥

I'm so so lucky for my tribe too.
notashamed ══╣╠══
.........comment?
writer_lilies ══╣╠══
I'm curious. I'd like to think there's a connection, but I post so frequently, I don't know if you get to read them all.
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