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poll: qualities a person must have for you to have sex with them


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Random poll of a thing I've been wondering about -- what qualities must a person have for you to be interested in having sex with them (assuming of course that they want to have sex with you)?
Poll #2039642 qualities a person must have for you to have sex with them

I have no particular requirements.
2(1.7%)
They must know their STI status, get tested regularly, and practice safer sex.
25(21.0%)
They must have a certain kind of body (sex, gender, thickness, color, height, age, ability, bone structure, etc).
10(8.4%)
I must enjoy their company.
29(24.4%)
They must have a certain kind of energy or personality trait or world view.
22(18.5%)
They must be able to play a certain role in sex (male, female, dominant, submissive, etc).
5(4.2%)
I must have known them for a certain length of time.
6(5.0%)
I must be in love with them.
4(3.4%)
I must be pursuing a romantic relationship with them.
6(5.0%)
I must have negotiated the shape of our relationship for the foreseeable future or I must be in a committed relationship with them.
10(8.4%)


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