October 2017
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sex wakes me UP!


Am I the only one with this problem?

After sex (when it's at night) Ben falls right asleep, but sex energizes me, 'cause afterwards I can't sleep for hours. LITERALLY. Last night I laid awake for at least three hours. (and I wish I could have woken Ben up and had him type for me, 'cause I mentally wrote an awesome scene in my story but I have probably lost a lot of the phrases that yet-unnamed-male says. (he was a character that just popped up as I thought -- a smartass tallran [gypsy]))
Bleh. It makes me not want to have sex at night, 'cause we don't use air conditioning, and when the wind is still and your body is hot, laying under even a sheet is torture (and I can't sleep without some kind of cover). And I made a committment to myself to be on Ben's schedule (since it is dreadfully unfair for him to get up and go to work while I sleep in). RRRRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrr.


I hope Ben will type for me later... my typing can't keep up with my mind -- but his comes close! And I have soooooooooooooooo many ideas! (where I can actually describe the tallran culture in story form -- without being didactic!)

feelings: creative

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Comments
genesiskenshin ══╣╠══
What do you normally eat before sex? Do you guys have something that makes him sleep?
karmia ══╣╠══
I saw a stand-up comic with the exact same complaint on comedy. He was like, "After sex, all I want to do is sleep, but my girlfriend, she's the exact opposite. I'm afraid one day I'll wake up after sex and find her in the back yard, putting in a swimming pool."
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Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.