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: Belenen (belenen) wrote,
2005-02-18 02:32:00

Belenen
belenen
2005-02-18 02:32:00

Mood: calm
Music: computer humming & heater blowing

forgiveness

Last week PJ said that when you forgive someone who hasn't repented, you wrong them. If you save someone from the consequences they should get for their actions, you are being an enabler, and doing more harm than good. ((edit: this doesn't mean you can't forgive them for your own sake; just that forgiving them is not something you should do for their sake, 'cause it's unlikely to help them))

I totally agree. And I'm so excited that he's going to go through the personality series more in depth soon.

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People who can say "no" with ease and confidence make me feel so safe

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People who can say "no" with ease and confidence make me feel so safe

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People who can say "no" with ease and confidence make me feel so safe

for me, love and trust are separate

I downloaded the new LJ app