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reason #3,542,895 that my husband is the best man ever


Ben shaved his mustache for me!!! Oh my fucking gosh. Now that's love -- he said it was a sacrifice, and he hates change and likes looking as intimidating as possible, so I believe him.

His lips are the most beautiful I've ever seen on a man (including Ryan Phillippe). I couldn't stop kissing him today, because every time I looked at him I was irrisistably attracted to his gorgeous sexy lips. That mustache did nothing but mask his lips and make him prickly -- now I understand why I so often turned my head when he tried to kiss me! I thought it was my fucked-up-ness, but it was that porcupine sitting on his upper lip!

I'm so happy and I feel so loved. For a person like Ben to make such a drastic change -- damn. But I want the goatee and sideburns to stay. ;-)

feelings: adored
sounds: Muse: "Thoughts Of A Dying Atheist"
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psychobobob ══╣╠══
i do beleive you are obsessed with 'taches!!
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
nah, not really -- just Ben's lips. ;-)
misemifein2 ══╣╠══
This post made me laugh so much :D

(is a good thing)

Joyful.
maladroitkat ══╣╠══
It made me laugh too. :-)

You're so cute.
belenen ══╣╠══
belenen ══╣╠══
kouhaataru ══╣╠══
I can appreciate that sacrifice well. I love my beard even though I know it looks like shit... it might be better if it grew on the rest of my face and not just my neck, but alas my face is too scarred and my hair genes too weak or something. <y father was apparently the exact same way, but he had even less hair on the rest of his face than me... which in a way might have actually been better.
mysterious
belenen ══╣mysterious╠══
ah... I think facial hair is connected to a sense of masculinity, which is why it was such a sacrifice.
But I promise I didn't nag or guilt him into it -- I just mentioned it, and he wanted to do something nice for me, so he shaved it.
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
you should post pictures!! (if he'll let you, that is) =D
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
if he'll let me is the key. ;-) I'm workin' on it.
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
mabels ══╣╠══
Lol, good for you, good for him! He will probably appreciate the kisses now more than ever!


I just want to convince James to grow his hair out for me...
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
I did that, heh, Ben's is down to what would be bra-strap-length on a girl. I love his hair.
mabels ══╣╠══
writer_lilies ══╣╠══
That's a pretty icon.
ethereal
belenen ══╣ethereal╠══
thank you, I love it. I transluscent-layered a photo of water onto a colorized photo of my face (not that you care, but anyway).
bluebl00d ══╣╠══
*yay* for Ben's naked lips ;)
teasing
belenen ══╣teasing╠══
;-) uh-huh, and you know where those lips are gonna go... *naughty grin*
shaybe ══╣╠══
when rob grew his beard i was less then thrilled but then i got used to it and i totally loved it and then just when i realized how cute he looked with it he shaved it off...lol.. i'm glad you like Ben without his moustache. it would be bad if he shaved for you and you realized you liked the moustache better
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
I know! He was afraid of that, but I just adore being able to see his lips.
_bijou ══╣╠══
Aw.

Hehe, I feel the same way about my mans lips.

Yum.
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
;-) yum indeed.
eternitywaiting ══╣╠══
Ooh, I think you should definately provide us all with a picture of your newly smooth husband. :-)

Robert swears he will shave after he loses weight...he thinks his face is too fat to be bald right now. :-/ All I have to say is, he betten lose weight soon! He's got beautiful mouth, too. Stupid hairy husband....
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
I want to take a photo, but I have to convince him first. :-/

(haha, I picked that up from you like a phrase from a friend you talk to often. ;-) )
atomicshiznit ══╣╠══
thats so cute!

yuck i hate facial hair! so i would've asked him to do it a looong time ago
but lucky you, he must really love you
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
I like facial hair otherwise, but not mustaches.

(and yeah, he does really love me!)
emptywineglass ══╣╠══
Awww, that's so sweet! Josh always lets his beard grow out and then shave it off after a week or so, so the feel of his kisses are always different. I love it when he firsts shaves though cause then he feels soooo smooth. :)
giggling
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
mmm, smooth kisses. ;-)
shespoke ══╣╠══
my boyfriend has the fastest growing facial hair ever. but when he makes the effort to shave everyday i can't help but place with his fair. it's so baby soft! (for a little while, anyway)
garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
I know! Ben's facial hair doesn't grow too fast, I don't think. He doesn't get stubble until a full day has passed.
aubkabob ══╣╠══
wow!!! hee hee. i see this as a step towards healing for you, since it seems that your reactions to certain things wasn't necessarily because of things that you thought they were.

*happy hugs*
vivacious
belenen ══╣vivacious╠══
*hugs back* It feels good to hear someone say that!
aubkabob ══╣╠══
anar_anar ══╣╠══
awwwwwwwww, heheheeheeee, oh goodness, well then, you MUST take a photo for us!!!!!
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