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day with sabr!


prepare yourself for possible flooding as I attempt to be less control-freakish about spacing out my posts, and I'm feelin' verbose, oh yeah.

I spent Thursday with sabr; such a fantastic day! We went to my favorite little trinket-store, where I didn't find anything for Hannah's birthday (*pout*) but I DID find two awesome little flip-top pewter urns to add to my collection of weird little treasures. I felt a little funny some of the time, because I tend to be singleminded when shopping and I was worried that I was making sabr feel ignored, but we talked here and there about random things, and overall I was surprisingly comfortable. See, I've met her once before, but that was with other people around, so this was the first time I'd spent one-on-one time with her and I was very nervous beforehand.

Then we went to the mall and wandered around a while, looking for a store that sold all kinds of figurines, especially fantasy creatures -- but the owners had retired and closed the store, very disappointing. We walked around arm in arm for a while -- I'm a hand-holding person and she's not, so she suggested arm-in-arm. I had expected it to be stiff and uncomfortable because the only person I've ever walked arm-in-arm with is almost a foot taller than me (heh), heh, but it was actually very comfortable and cozy. ♥ (I'm such a cuddle person; touch means a lot to me. I'm longing to go to a cuddle party (fuckin' lucky Londoners and Alabamans!) I tell you what, if I can come visit Hannah and Kate by the 11th, we are SO going to that party on the 11th. *dreams*)

anyway, we next went to the famous green couch, and I was shocked and appalled that she didn't know what I meant when I referred to it! :-O But then she remembered. ;-) We had an incredible, almost-4-hour-long conversation (that couch is magic, I tell ya) about all kinds of things, mainly old relationships and our metamorphoses from the selves we used to be to the selves we are now. I feel so much more comfortable with her now: after the breakup with Ashley I had felt very strange and alienated from sabr, since she's also friends with Ashley, but after quite a few IM conversations and emails, I had begun feeling more confident in our relationship. That conversation at the coffeehouse just made everything slip into place. I'll admit it still weirds me out when I think about it, but I think it is quite possible for me to build my relationship with sabr in spite of it, and that's a lovely thing.

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sister of my heart II
smurfb1ue ══╣sister of my heart II╠══
A cuddle party sounds amazing. I'll jump on the I'm jealous bandwagon.
effervescent
belenen ══╣effervescent╠══
I know!
sidheblessed ══╣╠══
Sounds a magical day!
effervescent
belenen ══╣effervescent╠══
it was! SabR is awesome. ;-)
darkpool ══╣╠══
Yeah, cuddle parties sound awesome
effervescent
belenen ══╣effervescent╠══
I know! Someday I just gotta go to one.
horses : scarlette : canter
sabr ══╣horses : scarlette : canter╠══
[x giggles with delight x]

It was a very fun day, and we HAVE to do it again sometime very very soon. You have to come meet my horses. I think you will most love Scarlette, because she has magical abilities, and I think you'll be able to sense that :D
ethereal
belenen ══╣ethereal╠══
ohhhhhhhh I so want to meet her! *excited*
clown_frog ══╣╠══
Glad you had such an amazing day :-)

Cuddle parties sound like a good thing. It would be so great if you could visit by the 11th, just cos its so close!! Whether I'd be able to accompany you to cuddle party would depend on how much money I feel able to spend... but it would be an amazing excursion.

Preparing myself for friend-page flooding, with great anticipation. I do love reading your posts, though the more they are the more I seem to miss commenting on. And the ones I seem to miss are the more important ones, because I start thinking about them and then forget to go back. It isn't very friendly of me I think. The more things I have to do, the less I get done, I think.

In any case, I'm going to go try finishing that survey for you now, at least, before bed.
eccentric
belenen ══╣eccentric╠══
OMG. I so so so so so so sooooooooooooo want to come over :-( ♥ ♥ ♥

ha ha, friends page flooding hasn't happened yet, but I'm still aiming for it, heh.

Thanks so much for redoing the survey! I'm going to comment back soon. ;-)
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