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poll: recommend me a friend & a topic

Poll #913650 recommend me:

an lj-friend of yours you think I'd love:

a topic to post on (I make no promises!):

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woah_the_kettle ══╣╠══
I had to say czartylear cause thats Tyler, and even though he never posts, and if he does, its always about, like, not much, and probably like porn or butts or a movie or something because he is a dummy (a cute dummy, but a dummy none the less) But he is my honey bunny baby and I love him <3 and you should love him too <3 because I love you <3! AND WE SHOULD ALL LOVE EACHOTHER!!!!

and for a topic it was hardly a topic but I would LOVE to read a poem of yours because you have a way with words that makes me say "Oh I know, for realz!" Plus poetry is awesome. I should write a poem about you yay!
belenen ══╣eccentric╠══

ahem. but anyway, I am afraid I have a thing about not adding non-active journals (like SabR's bf, etc.) so... anybody else?

I should post a poem! but which one, hmmmm. well, you can browse some of my poetry here: http://www.freewebs.com/belenen/writing/stretch.html & http://www.freewebs.com/belenen/writing/strengthen.html Tell me which is your fav. and I'll post it XD
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in_withbothfeet ══╣cute as a button heart╠══
I'm thinking of who to recommend, the person I think you'd appreciate most is currently on hiatus for about 6 months... so I'm trying to find someone else for now. When Ana (the original person I thought of) returns, I'll let you know incase you're still interested :) She's very strong, very much in love with life and seeks oppurtunity to grow around every corner. She's also learning to love her body and sincerely believes in the beauty of curves... etc.

I was reading the answers other people have filled in, and I just wanted to say that I love the one about the difference between pornography and artistic nudity, and I'm in the middle of working on one of that topic myself... among other things involving the sex industry. Remember awhile ago I posted a... ranty thing about pornography and porn myths and got attacked by my friend for being "sexist" and blablala okay. Well, if you do remember... then... yess. That shook me up quite a bit, just because I didn't know my friend would attack me like that, not that it changed my beliefs. So I've been hesitant to get back into it but I have been over the past few days and I want to post it soon.

Okay so the reason I'm telling you this. Actually, there are two:
1.) It helped me be more confident to see the growing concern on this issue and
2.) is that I didn't want you to think I'd be simply copying you if you do happen to post on this! That's a big fear I have, because of some things I went through a while back and I could go on and on about it... maybe you wouldn't even think that anyway, I'm making nooo assumptions! I know you believe strongly in this and appreciate all support and insight on the topic as possible, but I just wanted to say this out of respect, and to be honest now that I think about it, probably a bit of projection from my past experience that has nothing to do with other people. Okay. Uhm... that was an interesting realization to stumble upon mid-type at 2:30 AM. I do hope... this is well-recieved and doesn't seem pointless and awkward, because really, the point was that I just didn't want to be worried and withdrawn about this in the future!
belenen ══╣passionate╠══
I'm glad you're gonna post about it! I definitely wouldn't think you were copying me ;-)

I've made one post about it a long time ago, but it wasn't comprehensive... I tend to avoid the subject because it makes me so blind screaming furious that I can hardly function. I should write a post about it though, I haven't yet partially because I don't enjoy that blind screaming rage, and partly because I feel that I'd be opening a floodgate in myself... and yes, a little bit because I fear the reactions of those LJ friends who watch porn. :-\ but soon, yes. I need to.
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belenen ══╣intrigued╠══
I'll check out thewhimmed, thanks for the recc! ;-)
on communication, social justice, intimacy, consent, friendship & other relationships, spirituality, gender, queerness, & dreams. Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.
Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.