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sex poll!


I don't believe in TMI, but of course if this is too personal for you, feel free to skip. ;-)
Poll #1072894 when you have sex:

how long is your average sexperience?

do you usually orgasm? if so, how many times per sexperience?

what's your favorite position?

do you usually switch positions during a sexperience? and if so, how many times on average?

when living with a significant other, how often do you have sex, on average?

do you most often have oral, manual ('fingering' or 'handjob'), or penetrative (penis, dildo) sex? do you prefer one more than the others?



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_paroxysm_ ══╣╠══
I don't mind sharing this stuff but just wondering why you're asking it?
curious
belenen ══╣curious╠══
just curiosity! I've only ever had sex with one person so I wanna know how other people do it. ;-)
(Anonymous) ══╣╠══
teasing
belenen ══╣teasing╠══
heh, maybe. I do intend to try others, just gotta find the right one :D
(Anonymous) ══╣╠══
amused
belenen ══╣amused╠══
lucky? heh, I suppose! why do you wish you had done that?
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giggling
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
oh dear! *giggles*
mourningdoveava ══╣╠══
I don't believe in TMI either! :D
adoring
belenen ══╣adoring╠══
awesome! :D
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curious
belenen ══╣curious╠══
what is 'dragon position'?? am very curious!
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garrulous
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
my definition of sex is any time consenting people have sexually-arousing interaction. ;-)
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amused
belenen ══╣amused╠══
=:-o !

:D you crack me up girl!
demonista ══╣╠══
i don't mind you sharing the info i gave.

speak of the devil, a long while ago, i posted sexuality questions. the ?s and answers people gave are available here:http://demonista.livejournal.com/21808.html.

I answered the questions myself, here: http://demonista.livejournal.com/22813.html
It's over 2 years old, but the good sex is still much the same (i had a semi-negative experience lately, after a year of not having a sex partner, but i have high hopes).
analytical
belenen ══╣analytical╠══
ohh, that's some fascinating stuff! thanks for the links!
tantra
shioneh ══╣tantra╠══
filled this out! :-) wondering, can i have your answers to these questions?

*kiss*
concupiscent
belenen ══╣concupiscent╠══
how long is your average sexperience?
it's usually an hour, often longer, with the occasional 30-minute sexperience.

do you usually orgasm? if so, how many times per sexperience?
yes, it used to be usually twice but over the past two years it has changed to usually once.

what's your favorite position?
for penetrative I like to be on top, but in the right mood I like missionary and 'doggie style' (usually start out with missionary because... well... my yoni has to 'adjust' and that is the easiest way to ease in)
for giving oral I like to lay on my back and have him on hands and knees over me, with my hand in/on my yoni and him stroking my breasts
(so far I have never liked receiving oral but I do like giving it, never given oral to a girl but I know I would like that too)
for receiving manual I like to be on my knees

do you usually switch positions during a sexperience? and if so, how many times on average?
yes. unless we do missionary it's at least twice, usually three times I'd say.

when living with a significant other, how often do you have sex, on average?
There is no average. :-\ our sex life has always been weird -- first due to my issues with sexual abuse, then due to us simply not getting along (for like a year), and now because he has issues with expressing himself, especially with physical affection. I think if that was gone we would still have to deal with schedules, but it would probably be about twice a week. If he worked only 8 hours 5 days a week AND had no intimacy issues I would guess we'd have sex probably every other day. *sigh*

do you most often have oral, manual ('fingering' or 'handjob'), or penetrative (penis, dildo) sex? do you prefer one more than the others?
I like giving oral and receiving manual the most, I think. Penetrative adds stress because I'm not on birth control and the condoms add so much friction that it takes forever for me to get adjusted to the point where it is comfortable, and I am paranoid about getting a skin tag because it was SO PAINFUL before. I have never tried a slim dildo, that might be something I would enjoy. I would buy so many sex toys but I don't want to patronize a shop that sells or decorates with porn. >:-( Do you know of any anti-porn sex toy shops?
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