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dream (I forget about a date with an amazing girl) / Paul Rudd & movies

last night I dreamed I met this amazing girl and we made plans for a date. She came up to me the morning of and reminded me that we had a date at 8pm, and I was like, "oh yeah! of course I'll be there!" ...and then I forgot. What is WRONG with me? Good lord. I can only meet girls who like me in dreams and then I flake on them. *rolls eyes*

in other news I recently fell in LOVE with Paul Rudd after seeing him in "I Could Never Be Your Woman." I've always liked him (since "Clueless" way back in '95) but it took this movie to really send me head over heels. and I tumbled even more after learning that he had to lose 25 pounds for the role! Which means he is usually thicker than Hollywood likes. He didn't look any different to me, but then I'm not Hollywood, am I. I guess they had to make him 'match' Pfeiffer better. Because people only get with people of similar size? FUCK HOLLYWOOD! I'm in a weird mood. back to the movie -- I loved the little girl's parodies, especially the one of Britney, haha! "Oops, I got a career / by shakin' my rear / and making guys leer / oh baby, baby"** Michelle Pfeiffer was okay, but I didn't like her character much. I tend to get annoyed with self-hate in movies.

Then I went out and saw "Over Her Dead Body" all by myself tonight (*pout* lonely *sadface*) which was only okay. I didn't think Paul fit in that role very well. But I enjoyed watching him all the same. SO. BEAUTIFUL. He has officially replaced Ryan Phillippe and Lee Pace as my favorite actor. There's just something about him that is so genuine. and of course I've always swooned over green eyes. But it's his smile that really gets me. He joins Angelina as being one of those people that if they smile, I have to smile in response. *dreamy sigh*

those EYES! *dies* I tried to find a photo of him really smiling (he has this adorable sideways grin) but no luck. :-p

simultaneously sexy and hilarious! *giggles*

**disclaimer: I have nothing but sympathy for Britney, since she has been just a pawn in a horrible game, but I still find the irony amusing. ;-)

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bellerisa ══╣╠══
I like Paul Rudd too :) Thanks for sharing the yummy pics!
"Over Her Dead Body" looks pretty rubbish but I might have to watch it just because he's in it.
belenen ══╣concupiscent╠══
you're welcome! yummy indeed >:-}

yeah, it had some funny moments but mostly it was just silly. Have you seen "I Could Never Be Your Woman" ? My favorite performance of his, for sure!
shioneh ══╣summer╠══
His eyes look so bright and brilliant and foresty! and that second photo makes me smile. he's being so silly and he's so naked and comfortable looking and it feels really intimate, like hanging out with a trusted friend.
Good on you for going to see the move alone. I wish so much that I could be your movie-buddy.
It is strange about the flaking on woman dates in dreams. Do you think you subconsciously feel you're not ready for a relationship? Or you sense the time isn't right? or do you think there is a block inside you are trying to overcome?
belenen ══╣analytical╠══
yeah, I really adore him. You've got to see "I Could Never Be Your Woman" -- I think you'd like it. It has some anti-beauty-myth messages, though it contradicts itself because it's hollywood, of course. and the beginning credits might be triggering -- all these images of plastic surgery and unhealthy dieting and over-exercising (intended to point out the horror). But mainly, Paul Rudd is HILARIOUS and lovely and so worth watching.

hm, I think the dream has more to do with my fears that if I even GET the opportunity, I'll fuck it up. I definitely feel ready, and I feel the time is right -- but I'm afraid that somehow I will lose whatever chance I get.
aubkabob ══╣water╠══
Oh how I love him!! I've been a massive fan since WAY back in the day, and was beyond pleased when he joined the cast of F.R.I.E.N.D.S! Tee hee (fangirl giggle!)
belenen ══╣giggling╠══
*joins in the fangirl giggle!*
sabr ══╣╠══
I love him tooooo! XD
belenen ══╣adoring╠══
:D :D :D
kiwi ══╣╠══
He's one of those actors that I frickin' adore, loved him back in the FRIENDS era, love him still. :D Love that second pic, made my morning.
belenen ══╣concupiscent╠══
oh hell yeah! :D
That is Brand New Information!
growing_wise ══╣That is Brand New Information!╠══
Did you know that Paul Rudd grew up just minutes from my house? And went to high school just a few minutes away, too. =)
belenen ══╣shock╠══
:-O did you know him?!?
darkpool ══╣╠══
I liked him in clueless to. I may have to add those to my netflix.
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
do! ;-)
happystance ══╣╠══
thats a hot picture of paul rudd.
belenen ══╣concupiscent╠══
I agree! *rowr!*
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
you don't think britney all by herself made some pretty stupid choices?? i can't say i care much about her situation one way or the other, but i definitely judge people who behave like idiots and do idiotic things and end up in idiotic situations... *shrugs...*

on a totally unrelated note, i got part of your birthday present today, but i want to find something else, so it will definitely be late. i haven't seen anything else yet, but i feel like i will if i keep looking ;) do yo wear jewelry that you didn't bead?? if i find earrings or something, would you wear them?? just thinking ;)
belenen ══╣earrings╠══
well, yeah! She's done some stupid shit, but she was just a kid when she got put in that world... and I don't envy her situation, not being able to trust anyone. Gotta suck. And I definitely think that a parent who lets their child get into showbiz is guilty of child abuse/neglect. It's horrid.

YAY presents!

I rarely wear jewelry I didn't make -- earrings have to be the kind I can't make (silver, dichroic glass, colored metal, or gems) and I hardly ever wear necklaces. Basically I am very picky, but if you see something that just screams my name, I probably will love it.
lorelei_sakti ══╣╠══
Ooooh, I love Paul Rudd! I believe he was in 300 Cigarettes as well.
belenen ══╣curious╠══
yeah, I haven't seen that -- is it good?
lorelei_sakti ══╣╠══
Yes, I think it's good! Some people say it has too many famous actors in it, but I liked it. It's cute and quirky.
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