Why is it that photographers get so possessive? He hasn't even shot me yet and he was already wanting me to work with him exclusively. I got a hint of that and Ben said it was obvious to him. Anyway...
We also got Miss K a birthday present and card, and went to visit with them. Ben told them about his experience in counseling today (it was pretty profound -- he is so much more free and his love has lost that tinge of clinginess). Pre-natal woundings just don't go away on their own. It is easy to understand why so many people just shut their pain away and live on the surface; if you don't have the keys to dealing with it, that is pretty much all you can do.