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poll: what do YOU want to see here?


What do you want to see more of in my LJ? (and no "whatever you want to share" answers! I'll assume that that's your first response ;-))



Also! if you have any questions feel free to ask in comments, and I might respond directly or turn it into a post.


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bunny & panda
cunningbunny ══╣bunny & panda╠══
This is more a specific question than something general to post about, but I'm curious and figure you won't be afraid to tell me to mind my own damn business if you don't feel like sharing. :-P

I re-entered after some major shifts took place in your life, so maybe you already made lots of posts about the subject and I just missed them. But your anniversary post reminded me, and thus the nosiness will ensue. (This seems like a fairly basic thing about a person's life, like knowing if they're married or not, but I could be way off; again, just tell me to cram it if I'm being too nosey. I just feel foolish not knowing what seems like a "basic" about a friend.)

I know that you identify as polyamorous now, and are still with Ben, and have been with Aurilion for a year now. But I guess I just don't know how your relationships...are. (Heh, that sounds simplistic.) Other friends I've had who were poly (and in active multiple relationships) always identified what their relationships were, as in whether they were a triad or had separate but open relationships, whether their partners identified as poly as well, or just were happy to be monogomous on their end of a partnership with a poly person. I know Ben is aware and supportive of your relationship with Aurilion, and vice-versa, but (just from the gist of your posts, photoposts, etc.) I assumed Ben and Aurilion aren't partnered, and therefore you aren't a triad. (But then I remembered that old saying about assumptions and figured I should just ask.) Do Ben and Aurilion identify as poly also, or do they just support your indentity as such?

And in general I'm just curious about your feelings on the topic, as it applies to you and your partners, rather than the community at large. (Again, something you've probably largely covered in posts I just wasn't around for.)
aetheric ══╣╠══
I wanted to add that your journal is one of my favorites to read already, so I had to think a bit to come up with something you don't already post about. <3 I especially love your posts on spirituality and your thoughts on socio-cultural issues.
on communication, social justice, intimacy, consent, friendship & other relationships, spirituality, gender, queerness, & dreams. Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.
Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.