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belenen
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requesting candor


If you ever hear things about me that seem at odds with what I state as my principles/morals/intentions, then if you consider me a friend I would like you to speak with me and ask about my motives.

Also, please read this. Though it needs updating, it expresses most of my feelings on the subject.

sounds: Jill Scott -- "Hate On Me"
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butafli ══╣╠══
◹◸ 2010-07-01 05:29 pm (UTC) ◹◸
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Would it not be more direct to talk to people? Either to those who are talking about you or those who you think have heard rumors?
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belenen ══╣╠══
◹◸ 2010-07-02 12:18 am (UTC) ◹◸
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I have already talked to those who are talking about me, and I would talk to those who have heard rumors but I don't know who they all are.

It's not really an issue anymore because the one who was talking about me finally got back with me and explained what zir issues with me were, and I don't feel the need to defend myself on those points.
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camilleyun ══╣╠══
◹◸ 2010-07-30 12:11 am (UTC) ◹◸
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Just dropping by to say hello because it's been a while since you posted. How is everything? Since I don't have a Facebook anymore I feel very out of the loop with what's going on with people.
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characters in the story of my life
ace · adi · allison · anika · arizona · ashe · aurilion · ava · b: ex-partner · biofamily · cass · chip · christa · cousin e · deb · elizabeth · elya · eviltwin · ex-in-laws · felix · firekat · hannah · heather · hope · jaime · kanika · kate · kay · kaylene · kazi · kei-won-tia · kimberley · kristy · kylei · laura · lilywolf · locke · maggie · meliae · mm · nea · nick · pat · pibling kc · pibling l · rebecca · sabr · sara · shel · suzu · sydney · sylvia · topaz · viv · vola · wynnes · zawn ·

lj friends & those passing through
Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.

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add-pi · affirmation · anxiety / overwhelmed / stress · art · body image · books · chemtrails · christianity · clothesfree · communication / words · connections · consent · creativity · deities · destined happenings · dreams · dreams more real than waking · energy handling · faith · films / shows · fractals · friendship · gender · giving · growth · intimacy · intimacy practice · intuition · lj my beloved home · love memory bank · lovetech · magic · music · names · nature · openness · other-directed education · pain · photos · polyamory / relationship anarchy · queerness · questions · rants · recovery / therapy / healing · relationships · ritual · sacred creations · self-educating · sensuality · sex · slurs · social justice / feminism · spirituality · stepwise processing · tbc · touch · trees · turning points · writing prompts (lj idol & etc)