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: Belenen (belenen) wrote,
2014-04-12 02:24:00

Belenen
belenen
2014-04-12 02:24:00

lies and cheating: poly means everyone knows what's happening

So, Aurilion was dating someone else - and living with them - for 3 months without telling me, and without telling the other person that we were more than friends. When ze eventually told me, I felt lied to and when I told zir this ze sent me a scathing email full of attacks on my character, then cut contact. I was feeling upset that ze tricked me into going behind zir person's back, and I just realized that ze cheated on me too with this lie of omission. I haven't really processed that because it's such a big deal.

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lies and cheating: poly means everyone knows what's happening

my self-labels, part 3: atheist Quaker spiritualist, energy-weaver, color/light worshipper...

my self-labels, part 2: consent advocate, communalist, social justice activist, polyamorous...

LJI topic 7, "where I'm from": I am from the Internet, from a little city called Livejournal.

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