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notes to various unnamed


icon: "egyptian (abstract fractal I made that looks like a vulture's head in greens and oranges)"


anonymous notes, most are advicey-things, take only if it resonates with you:

I hope you learn how to walk out of that cell. The door is not locked, you're just afraid of trying it and finding that it is locked.

I hope you maintain that wall. Your garden needs it to keep the wind from blowing away all your just-scattered seeds. At least let them take root.

Stop only looking at your needs in this interaction. Consider what is best for the other person; otherwise your actions are the OPPOSITE of loving. Stop, stop, stop. Don't make it all about you.

You are a brave soul and you can overcome this. I am pleased to be able to provide some support in this transformation. Keep on building yourself, I hope you don't get distracted!

You are lovable, you are worthy, you deserve all that is good. It WILL come to you, I know it, I feel it, but your doubt pushes it farther. It hurts to trust and be failed but it actually allows more growth in your life. Just distrusting will keep what you want from coming into your life.

Try. Don't tell yourself stories about how it is not worth it. Tell yourself stories about what could happen if your efforts succeed. I believe in you.

I hope you believe in me. I will give to you everything I can, when I have it. I have been running out every day lately, but my love has not diminished; it has grown. I hope you can ask for what you want and be happy with what I have to offer.

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Comments
slinkslowdown ══╣╠══
I feel a lot of these apply to me...

Thank you for writing these. <4
siduri ══╣╠══
Thank you for this, there are indeed things that resonate...
wildrose ══╣╠══
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
Ooh, they're like really poignant fortune cookies!! :D I'm snuggling with one of them in particular ^_^
lilywolfsolomon ══╣╠══
Snuggling with them! That is something I can do quite well and it doesn't require words. :D
kmiotutsie ══╣╠══
^_^
lilywolfsolomon ══╣╠══
I feel awkward and clumsy with my words around you. Sometimes when I read/hear your words I'm speechless for an hour. I want to speak in tongues but it comes out as a mumble. All of this. I love you.
lilywolfsolomon ══╣╠══
Some of this is exactly what I am bringing into my life right now, AT LAST, new beginnings and self-trust and... things I've never given myself but there comes a time!
meri_sielu ══╣autumn raven╠══
There are a fair few things here that resonate, thanks for sharing <3
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Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.