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psa: flist pruning


icon: "garrulous(a photo of my lips with the skin greyed out and the lips overlaid with a green and blue fractal pattern)"

I just cleared out my friends list of people who I hadn't interacted with significantly in at least half a year, including some read-only journals. I had never taken inactive journals off if I wanted them to read my stuff, but I decided I'd rather know who is actually here. If you still use your LJ to read and want me to re-add you, let me know. Otherwise, if you feel a desire to maintain contact elsewhere, I'm cool with being friends on FB (facebook.com/belenen).

also, I keep meaning to respond to that question -- do I like responses even when I don't reply: YES. I love reading people's responses. Especially if they contain emotion words or a description of thought process. I always intend to respond, but it often gets away from me. It is always appreciated though! never fear annoying me with too many comments -- it really won't happen.


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fayriekisses ══╣╠══

I may not comment often, but I always read what you post.

wildrose ══╣╠══
meri_sielu ══╣╠══
I do try to make more of an effort to comment because I do enjoy what I read here and often have thoughts to share because your posts are very thought provocative. Sorry I haven't been as active as I'd like recently, it's very hard to be when life is all over the place and I'm not connected to the internet at home at the moment either.
acid_burns ══╣╠══
I'm always here reading <3. Just absolutely useless with everything else when it comes to LJ. Love you.
delicatexflower ══╣MISC-emilythestrange-headset╠══

thank you for keeping me. ♥

sammason ══╣╠══
Here's a comment, new friend. I agree about liking comments but not demanding them. Replying to comments is optional, so we don't all get stuck saying 'like!' or 'this!'

Your decision to prune your Flist makes sense. I prune mine sometimes. Usually it's because somebody's gone silent, which I take to mean that they've stopped using LJ. It might also mean that they're lurking. I don't like lurking.
fyrebard ══╣╠══
I am not currently active in posting, but I do keep up with your posts. If there's something I feel moved to comment on, I comment through PM on Facebook. I would like to stay, if you'll have me.
zimtkeks ══╣╠══
Thanks for keeping me, even though I still haven't responded to your nudge!
I keep starting to phrase posts in my head, but then I never get around to writing them. There's just too much to do right now, and then at night I'm too tired. So sorry. :-(
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kehlen_crow ══╣╠══
Thank you for answering.

I kept meaning to confirm I've seen this (quite illogically, but I was barely skimming my friends page then and read this particular entry almost by accident, so it feels important) and then I don't. You know how it is :-)
on communication, social justice, intimacy, consent, friendship & other relationships, spirituality, gender, queerness, & dreams. Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.
Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.