icon: "exuviate (photo of a dragonfly with shimmery green wings after its last metamorphosis, standing next to its previous exoskeleton)"
[wins and misses for 2015 goals]500 photos taken that I like. (

365 instances of unprompted openness. (

365 days of keeping up with text responses at least once daily. (

365 days of taking one cellphone snapshot daily. (

303 days that include a spiritual practice, aiming for early in the day. (

252 LJ entries. (

88 love bank entries. (

77 fractals. (

55 dreams recorded. (

55 artworks created. (

55 intuitions recorded. (

55 days of reading a spiritual book. (

44 me-initiated text conversations with KWT, Abby, Anika, Kat, Allison, Jaime (each). (

44 me-initiated fb messages to Heather and Kylei (each). (

30 30-minute meditations. (

16 intimacy practices. (

13 1-on-1 or 1-on-2 hangouts with KWT, Kylei, Heather, Jaime, Allison (each). (

14 w Heather

9 w Allison

9 w Kylei

7 w Jaime

KWT isn't counted because they cut out very early in the year.
11 new casual friends made. (

8 crafty parties. (

7 new park visits (parks I haven't been to before). (


4 concerts. (

4 sets of talismans made. (

3 sets of icons made. (

3 new good friends made. (

2 22-day writing streaks. (

2 sets of card readings. (

2 musicsharing posts. (

2 art inspiration posts. (

1 new tattoo. (

1 long (3.5+ hour) drive by myself. (

1 burn-centered event. (

1 class led at a convention. (




More physical exertion. (

More work on my etsys and art fb and local selling of my art. (

More writing in my book of magic. (

More new kinds of sex/physical intimacy. (

More energy work with more people. (

Redo my "characters in the story of my life" post. (

Do year-overviews for 2012, 2013, 2014. (

So that's about half and half for number of items, but for importance of items I mostly succeeded. I thought for sure I had failed on the friends stuff but I did much better than I thought! Also I hadn't included several goals which I met: graduate college, come out to more members of biofamily and give them a chance, write two papers suitable for publication, become more assertive, prepare & submit name change paperwork, keep houseplants alive, and get comfortable writing image descriptions.
For 2016!
◯ Do year-overviews for 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015. SERIOUSLY SELF COME ON.

◯ More physical exertion & stronger muscles.
◯ Keep track of media: books, films, shows, music, articles.
◯ More work on my etsys and art fb.
◯ 500 photos taken that I liked, sorted and uploaded.
◯ 280 instances of unprompted openness (aim for daily).
◯ 280 days of keeping up with text responses at least once daily (aim for daily).
◯ 280 days of taking one cellphone snapshot daily (aim for daily).
◯ 280 days of correct calendar notes (aim for daily).
◯ 280 days that include a spiritual practice, aiming for early in the day (aim for daily).
◯ 220 LJ entries (aim for daily).
◯ 88 love bank entries (check weekly).
◯ 77 fractals made.
◯ 55 dreams recorded.
◯ 44 artworks created (aim for weekly).
◯ 44 days of reading a spiritual book (aim for weekly).
◯ 44 30-minute meditations (aim for weekly).
◯ 33 intuitions recorded.
◯ 16 intimacy practices.
◯ 13 or more people cuddled.
◯ 13 new nature site visits.
◯ 13 new casual friends made.
◯ 13 self-portraits that I like.
◯ 11 group hangouts (me plus 3 or more of my tribe).
◯ 11 me-initiated text conversations with Sydney, Allison, Cass (each).
◯ 11 1-on-1 or 1-on-2 hangouts with Kylei, Heather, Sydney, Allison (each).
◯ 8 1-on-1 or 1-on-2 hangouts with Jaime, Cass (each).
◯ 8 me-initiated text conversations with Abby, Anita, Adi (each).
◯ 8 me-initiated fb/app messages to Heather, Kylei, Kat, Hannah, & Jaime (each).
◯ 8 crafty parties (aim for monthly).
◯ 8 book/film/show reviews (aim for monthly).
◯ 8 spiritual events hosted or attended (aim for monthly).
◯ 5 or more people kissed (at least 1 new person).
◯ 3 or more people engaged in intense physical intimacy.
◯ 3 or more energy-exchange experiences with new people.
◯ 3 new good friends made.
◯ 3 or more pages in my book of magic written.
◯ 3 new photo posts.
◯ 3 music-sharing posts.
◯ 3 art inspiration posts.
◯ 2 new kinds of sexual/physical intimacy experiences.
◯ 2 22-day writing streaks.
◯ 2 workshops led at a large gather.
◯ 2 sets of talismans made.
◯ 2 nude photoshoots! at least.
◯ 1 set of icons made.
◯ 1 set of card readings.
◯ 1 burn-centered event attended.
◯ 1 new job.
◯ 1 new dwelling place.
◯ 1 legalized name.