(skip to main)

horrible bioparents finally gone, maybe I can return to life

icon: "bloodcurdling (photo of me w wide-eyed snarling wild expression wearing "Red Queen" makeup: searingly red lips, darkened pointed eyebrows, black eyeliner, deep red & black eyeshadow accented with gold & silver, and black-outlined silver hearts & diamonds with red shadows on my cheeks)"

Despite my best efforts I've only managed to post a handful of times in the past six weeks.
I'm so far behind on LJ that I will miss things as I go to catch up -- please forgive me if I make some clueless comment or something.

Not only did I start a new job that is physically and mentally exhausting (I have to do a lot of physical labor, stand for hours at a time, and memorize many things), my parents being here really ruined my mental health. They lie, they invade, they break and ruin, and they make up utter bullshit to justify themselves.

To get through them torturing me this way for a solid month, I spent every spare moment escaping. I rewatched the entirety of Friends despite its problems, because nostalgia made it engaging enough for escape (when I was agoraphobic I watched hours of Friends on DVD every day because it gave me a sense of connection).

After she went in my bedroom using the excuse of a beeping noise that was coming from DOWNSTAIRS, I explicitly told P not to go in my bedroom for any reason. Then she went in because she was 'afraid of a fire hazard' from my light bulb being close to some lace. First of all, I told her not to even look in my room. Secondly, not only was it not touching and had plenty of air flow, it was an LED BULB that is still cool to the touch after being on for 24+ hours. She lied about it being 'really hot' and I know this because I put my bare finger directly on the bulb after it had been on for more than a day. Goddamn nasty invasive piece of shit! I feel so deeply disgusted at this overt evil creepy nasty violation. Part of me wants to blast her via text about it but it would do no fucking good because she has built guardrails around realizing her own lies and treachery and there is no amount of pushing that will make her realize. I can't stand how easily she can betray me. It makes me actually nauseated.

M was equal parts attacking and controlling (trying to bully me into meeting at a particular time after I said no multiple times, misusing things that did not belong to him and refusing to replace them) and weirdly helpful and respectful (making an effort to get me home on time when I said I had plans later, taking me to get new shoes and groceries which he paid for). I hate that because it rips away my defenses. I cannot resist responding with openness when someone is respectful and kind but it makes it so much fucking worse when they are disrespectful.

I'm about to try and do some clearing, kick their energy out. Hopefully soon I will be able to put my brain in order and not feel so gross.

back to top

Friends - Moo Point
miss_ljv ══╣Friends - Moo Point╠══
I love Friends!! You just have to realize it was a product of the era it was made! My sister, cousin, and aunt are all obsessed too. I got ALL of my friends into it - I consider it one of my greatest contributions to the friends group, since I grew up watching it and they all were exposed to it in their early 20s. You can't even be a part of our friends group without being able to quote it! My ugly sweater this year is Friends-themed, and I've watched the entirety of the show more times than I can count. XD

Re: bioparents stuff - gross, and I'm sorry. I know that is such an awful feeling to be so casually violated. *hugs*
belenen ══╣garrulous╠══
I used to be that into it too! it's great when you can share something like that with people. I never had any friends who were into it.
Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.
November 2019
          1 2
3 4 5 6 7 8 9
10 11 12 13 14 15 16
17 18 19 20 21 22 23
24 25 26 27 28 29 30

Expect to find curse words, nudity, (occasionally explicit) talk of sex, and angry ranting, but NEVER slurs or sexually violent language. I use TW when I am aware of the need and on request.