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8 answers to find your new best LJ friend


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belenen ══╣╠══
Re: Give it a shot
I'm also very big into honesty and science and I'm also a slytherin! wanna add each other and see how we get along?
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justphoenix ══╣pic#70560589╠══

<b>1) My age and location</b>: 41, MA, USA<br><b>2) My self-labels</b>: I'm not big on labels but for our purposes here: scientist, atheist, parent, married, monogamous, cat servant, dorky<br><b>3) My posts usually fall into the following categories</b>: Daily life, stuff about my kid?(18 mos), work. Occasional politics but this is mostly a personal space for me. Full disclosure: part of my job includes animal research. There will be no gross pictures or graphic descriptions. <br><b>4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are</b>: Daily life, but I'm open to most things, but I'm not into fan fiction. <br><b>5) My friendship dealbreakers are</b>: usual -isms (racism, sexism, homophobia, etc). <br><b>6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]</b>: day<br><b>7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics</b>: polymer science, Simpsons episodes<br><b>8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be</b>: umm, not a clue.

kitzune ══╣╠══
1) My age and location:
32 (almost 33!) Panama City Beach, FL | Pittsburgh, PA | Tokyo, JP

2) My self-labels:
Weirdo, dork, (fucking) idiot-sandwich

3) My posts usually fall into the following categories:
Introspection, day in the life, fandom (Love Live / Animal Crossing), art

4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are:
I love reading about other people's day to day lives.

5) My friendship deal breakers are:
Racism, politics, queerphobia.

6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]:
I try to post as often as I can, with the most being once a day.

7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics:
I'm really good at remembering song lyrics :B

8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be:
When walking around in public places, pay attention. Example: don't walk really slowly in the middle of the sidewalk. Don't take up the entire sidewalk space with you and your buddies like you're in some sort of movie and you're the protagonists. If you're walking down the sidewalk with your sweetie and holding hands and someone is walking solo toward you, don't force them to walk in the street or in the grass because you can't stop holding hands for one second to walk single file. If you see someone walking toward you and they are clearly on their phone and not paying attention to you, don't keep walking toward them and then get angry when they don't see you - you had the entire world to walk in and you chose to continue walking toward someone who obviously didn't see you!
phantoms ══╣╠══
Hey, we have some mutual friends in common. I also usually post about my daily life. Add? :)
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mimoiikit143 ══╣╠══
1) My age and location: 21 / Perth, WA
2) My self-labels: student, traveler, idk someone who's just trying her best to get her shit together? lol
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: 80% about life in general (my move to Aus, work, post graduate life, what's happening in the world, travel plans, etc) and 20% would be about random/fandom things.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: What's happening with their lives, any fandom updates, anything really that sparks my interest.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: If you're an asshole and spread any kind of hate/discrimination on my page then gurlbye
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: I've been busy the past 2 months since moving to Aus but I still try to comment ever so often.
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: This is hard. Ehmm, accounting? finance? (both are my undergrad majors), international business? HARRY POTTER, traveling, TITANIC CONSPIRACY THEORIES, language (I'm fluent in 5) and idk I think that's it.
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: That they be honest and straightforward. I CAN be very dense especially in moments of utter anxiety so I will not get what your body language is implying or subtle brushes of words. If you don't tell me you like me/hate my guts/get annoyed by me STRAIGHTFORWARDLY then I'm pretty sure I won't get it.
belenen ══╣╠══
I love when people talk about their real lives and I can't stand hinting either. wanna add each other and see how we get along?
lpiano ══╣╠══

1) My age and location: 30, Wirral UK

2) My self-labels: I don't do labels. Just being me and being happy, same for being you and being happy.

3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: hopefully a kind of self discovery and weight loss journey. Ultimately ending in doing something I am confident and happy doing (work wise)

4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are:  inspiring posts from ordinary days of extraordinary people. From their likes, hobbies, families, friends, whatever makes them happy.

5) My friendship dealbreakers are:  lying and bitching behind backs

6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: at least once a week

7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: I wouldn't assume to know more than anyone on any topic ... to the point that people who know Me, probably know me better than I know myself

8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: Just to be treated how they would want to be treated, with respect and at a push, compassion

webgirluk ══╣╠══
I'm quite close to you in North Wales and would be interested in being friends on here. I also am interested in mental health, self discovery and loved your line about wanting to read ordinary days from extraordinary people :-)
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meringues ══╣╠══
Me Star/July 2017
kristy ══╣Me Star/July 2017╠══
1) My age and location: I'm 44 & reside in NV, USA.

2) My self-labels: Survivor, bubbly, cat lady/mama, volunteer, developing close, online friendships.

3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Entertaining at times, photos of my cats & shelter kitties I volunteer with & day to day life.

4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: Photography of parts of the world/culture one resides at, daily life stories & kitty photos.

5) My friendship dealbreakers are: No interaction with my f-list, animal cruelty & anything in regards to NOT supporting people in toxic relationships/friendships.

6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: Almost daily, if not more than once a day.


7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: Domestic Violence, cats & cars, I know. I'm a girly girl but I love hot rods/muscle cars!

8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be:
I would like to be truly loved for whom I am.
twsted_beauty ══╣╠══
Maybe we can be friends.
kristy ══╣╠══
Queen of all Dragons
haebin ══╣Queen of all Dragons╠══
I hope, I am not too late. :>

1) My age and location:
I'm 40 years old and living in Germany.
2) My self-labels:
I am a dog-owner. Is that a label? ;D
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories:
Every day life, sometimes I talk about movies or series, love to talk about my dog and I share my daily 10-pics of the day because I love to share nice things and sometimes it helps me to describe my emotions when I can't find the right words.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are:
I am fine with your daily life postings, your thoughts and feelings and picture entries. :)
5) My friendship dealbreakers are:
Dramas. Most of them are totally unnecessary and it cost me too much strength. Dealbreakers are disrespectful behaviour, racism.
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]:
Once a day. :)
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: Oh, this is hard. I wouldn't say I am more knowledgeable than others. I'm learning every day new things.
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be:
Be open, try to understand, don't judge too fast.
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miss_ljv ══╣Avatar - Iroh o-tea-p╠══
1) My age and location: 29, MN, US
2) My self-labels: she, monogamish, very liberal
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: teaching, sex and relationships, knitting, gaming (video and dance-gaming), food/health/exercise, general happenings (holidays, family, friends)
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: slice of life - I really just enjoy following people's lives... like, a lot. So I prefer when people post at least once a week because I'm a hypocrite like that, but every other is fine too.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: Constantly negative/complaining/malicious - I don't like the bad juju feelings. Any bigotry or other human rights negation.
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 1-2 weeks. It fluctuates between multiple times per week to every other week depending on how busy I am.
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: knitting, gaming, food, yoga, spelling
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: That no one gets upset with me that I would prefer to be alone than hang out with them, because it's 100% about my degree of introversion as opposed to me not liking people.
seizetheday ══╣╠══
You seem really interesting, I would like to add you. I'm 34, female, and live in the DC area. If you are interested let me know.
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Looking down the barrel of a gun
celluloid_jam ══╣Looking down the barrel of a gun╠══
1) My age and location: 37, Seattle
2) My self-labels: Cis-female, pansexual, monogamous, married, gothish, punkish, borderline-commie-pinko-socialist, ex-RHPS-Frank-of-14-years, holidays-camping-festival-and-lake-loving, whiskey-drinkin', foul-mouthed, glittery, MA-of-Archetypal-Psychology, former Jill-of-all-trades who has been the F around the block and is happy these days to be a stay-at-home-mom of one beautiful baby boy, 2 obnoxious cats and one bitch dog while perfecting the art of baking like a boss and man, life is a helluva lot different now than it was when I started ye ole LJ back in May of 2000.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Daily life, my kid, pictures, whatever I am brainlessly bingewatching at the time, mental health, spirituality, psychology
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: Daily life, pictures, anything real, honest, funny, raw, positive, happiness-invoking (there's too much sadness in this world).
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: The usual bigotry, hatred, etc. Also as far as LJ-friends go, I don't enjoy reading fandoms. :-/
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: Anywhere from 3-6 times per week.
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: Depth Psychology, early childhood education
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: BE NICE, DAMNIT. Smile more.
found_world ══╣╠══
1) My age and location: 50, San Diego, California.
2) My self-labels: None at the moment.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Mundane "Here's what I did today" posts and occasional "Here're some photos of sometimes pretty or interesting places" posts.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: I don't know.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: I'm not sure. I don't like trolling/mean people.
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: once or less a day. Depending on if I feel like saying anything. Maybe a couple or few times a week.
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: I'm not sure.
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: I'm not sure.
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lyssa027 ══╣bambi╠══
1) My age and location: 35, Houston, TX
2) My self-labels: loner, introverted, nerdy, photographer, crazy cat lady, traveler, teacher
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: life and travel with photos mixed in with all of the above
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: their every-day lives :)
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: fandom only journals
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: 1-2 times a week, maybe more depending on what's going on in my life
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: teaching, photography, planning vacations
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: I would want people to understand the difference between being an introvert and being a bitch because I think most people think I'm unfriendly when I'm really just introverted as fuck
prinzessbtrfly ══╣╠══
hi, can we add each other :)
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cleodora ══╣╠══
1) My age and location: 32, England
2) My self-labels: cis female, bisexual, poly, ADHD, BPD, introvert
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: sex & dating, work, mental health, my cats, my 18 month old nephew
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: personal things and everyday life and ups and downs
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: people who are judgmental and/or untrustworthy
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: trying to post once a week or so but I've been away from LJ for a little while due to computer issues
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: bra-fitting, astrology, tarot, knitting, Shakespeare
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: be more patient. I'm a bit spacey and can get flustered easily because of my ADHD and if people are visibly irritated by that it makes me worse
prinzessbtrfly ══╣╠══
we can add each other if you'd like. i'd like to get to know u :D
theacidqueen ══╣╠══
1) My age and location: currently 30, 31 next month; currently new jersey, north carolina next year
2) My self-labels: vegan, homo, weirdo, gender ambivalent
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: a bit of everyday life, dreams, thought trains. My journal can get dark, though I filter my darkest entries.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: I much prefer to read about how a person is feeling vs what a person is doing, but I do like to read about your lives. Introspection, analysis, writing through complex thoughts & feelings, those types of are things most appealing.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: probably obvious.
6) I post entries on average once every: hmmmmm few weeks? I write in a notepad file for a while until I feel like posting it.
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: cooking & baking, dog care, tech support, lucid dreaming, bugs, arts & crafts
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: actually, it'd be really helpful if I could drink & smoke & medicate myself as needed without judgement.
earthandspirit ══╣╠══
1) My age and location: 45, Canada
2) My self-labels: Not really sure, I've never been good at labeling myself at all.
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: Grief - since my daughter died last year, spirituality, reflection and introspection. Average every day things too.
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: day to day usual stuff, good old school journaling before the days of 'omg look at me im a super famous blogger' (like once Wordpress became so popular) , posts that really give a feel for the life of the person I'm reading. Something that you don't just scroll through but really read.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: racism, bigotry, self-superiority, close-minded, lack of compassion
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: trying to post weekly, I had fallen out of practice.
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: I don't think I'm more knowledgeable than anyone, but I study Gnosticism, world religions, Druidry - I guess I know first handedly about grief more than some people, sadly. But really I don't think I am superior in any area.
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be Love. Truly, awkwardly love. Love the oppressed, the non oppressed, your neighbour, your neigbours dog, your own dog, your body, my body --- just love, so much more.
majesticzaichik ══╣╠══
1) My age and location: 32, West Texas
2) My self-labels: feminist, liberal, semi Weeaboo
3) My posts usually fall into the following categories: my life, occasionally politics, dumb work drama
4) My favorite things to read on my friends list are: updates on your life. Don't like fandom posts that much.
5) My friendship dealbreakers are: Usual stuff... hate, intolerance, etc.
6) I post entries on average once every [day, 2 days, week, etc]: Lately almost every day. Sometimes less than that
7) I consider myself more knowledgeable than the average person (average from people I've known) on these topics: History, especially American History, I guess Studio Ghibli in General
8) If everyone alive would agree to change their behavior in a single way regarding ONLY me, I would want it to be: I guess I don't really like it when people like to ramble about topics that don't interest me much... but that really just goes for talking. I don't mind if you write about it.
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